Family & Relationships3 mins ago
Dead Friends
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Im currently doing some decorating work. The people im doing it for are the parents of my long time friend and school mate, who died suddenly 3 years ago.
We had been school mates (same class all through high school) and eventually lost touch in our 20's when he moved away and I did the same. We got back in touch again about 5-6y yrs ago via the internet and had loads of good times when we met up (xmas etc).
After his sudden and unexpected demise, I kept in touch with his parents, who live locally, and have since done loads of DIY and decorating work for them, as I am now.
Question is...
His parents obviously talk about him a lot and we remenicse a lot, but I find it hard to keep talking about a friend thats no longer here. I obviously miss my mate but its hard going sometime. I dont want to sound heartless but just want to get on with my job without the photo albums coming out.
Not even a question I dont suppose, just want thoughts.
We had been school mates (same class all through high school) and eventually lost touch in our 20's when he moved away and I did the same. We got back in touch again about 5-6y yrs ago via the internet and had loads of good times when we met up (xmas etc).
After his sudden and unexpected demise, I kept in touch with his parents, who live locally, and have since done loads of DIY and decorating work for them, as I am now.
Question is...
His parents obviously talk about him a lot and we remenicse a lot, but I find it hard to keep talking about a friend thats no longer here. I obviously miss my mate but its hard going sometime. I dont want to sound heartless but just want to get on with my job without the photo albums coming out.
Not even a question I dont suppose, just want thoughts.
Answers
You are the link to their son They will find grieving long term and obviously for you it will be shorter Difficult one
21:30 Sat 01st Nov 2014