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My sister has confided in me that she cheated on her husband. They've been married for 3 years and together for 10 years.
She says it wasnt with anyone her or her husband knows, but that she met him a few weeks prior to cheating. My brother in law is besotted with her and while it would kill him if she told him they would work through it and stay together ( and I truly believe that too).
Apparently the "event" took place around 18 months ago. She didn't tell her husband because she said she felt so guilty that she should be the one to suffer not her husband, but now she thinks telling him might be a better idea as she doesn't want to lie to him anymore. I think she is genuinely sorry about what she did and I believe her when she says it happened once and put a stop to it straight after.
I don't know if she is still in contact with this bloke, but I am hoping she isn't!!
Basically she asked me what I thought she should do, and I genuinely don't know. I can understand that yes she cheatedand she should have to silently live with the consequences of this, but on the other hand my brother in law is a fantastic fella, and definitely doesn't deserve to be lied to.
Any thoughts?
She says it wasnt with anyone her or her husband knows, but that she met him a few weeks prior to cheating. My brother in law is besotted with her and while it would kill him if she told him they would work through it and stay together ( and I truly believe that too).
Apparently the "event" took place around 18 months ago. She didn't tell her husband because she said she felt so guilty that she should be the one to suffer not her husband, but now she thinks telling him might be a better idea as she doesn't want to lie to him anymore. I think she is genuinely sorry about what she did and I believe her when she says it happened once and put a stop to it straight after.
I don't know if she is still in contact with this bloke, but I am hoping she isn't!!
Basically she asked me what I thought she should do, and I genuinely don't know. I can understand that yes she cheatedand she should have to silently live with the consequences of this, but on the other hand my brother in law is a fantastic fella, and definitely doesn't deserve to be lied to.
Any thoughts?
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