Period after abortion

[milly143]

How long after you have had a surgical abortion should it be before you start getting periods again?

[B00]

Good 122345- I for one won't be sorry to see you go then!

Take care milly, alot of us are nice on here, glad you're not letting one persons opinions deter you from this site.

[beryllium]

122345, friend of mine had a termination at 5 mnths. It was quite possibly the most heart wrenching and traumatic decision that her and her husband had to make.

Why at 5 mnths? after the amnio, (which had to be done at 5 mnths), and other tests she was told the baby had Trisomy 13. The chances of that baby surviving birth was in question and the horrendous defects that child was with would have caused it traumatic stress and huge amounts of suffering and pain.

The hospital gave her no choice but to terminate.

I wish you well milly143, and strength. I do hope, if it was you that has been through this, that you find some peace in your heart.....

B. x

[redcrx]

It beggers belief that someone who doesnt know the full situation of a persons life can be so cruel and judgemental on such a thing as a termination(122345).

Milly, my opinion on such an emotional subject will not come into this. I do not know how long it would be before your cycle returns to normal but please try not to get too upset and stressed as this will effect the cycles too. The more you wait for it to arrive the later it will be.

[noxlumos]

Hello milly love, how you doing?

I remember your original post and my heart goes out to you to have been treated so disgracefully by the 122345 moron.Read the rest of her posts she's an utter muppet and not in the real world.

I'm sure the others have given you the advice you need, just wanted to lend my support to you.Take care.

[bellasasha]

hi milly

it should be about 4 weeks

i didnt see what 122345 posted but i can guess it wasnt nice...i have taken the brunt of most of her rubbish. she doesnt have a clue about life and as far as i am aware is a silly teenager who clearly hasnt lived in the real world....not worth paying any attention to her as that is what she gets off on.

anyway milly, take care of yourself...i know it is a heart wrenching descision to make and i know it wont have been easy for you.

big hugs

sash xxx

[milly143]

Thank you so much everyone, even though I don't know any of you (other then from on here) it really does mean a lot to know your kind thoughts. As some of you have asked, I'm good, just getting on with things and keeping my mind off it.

Thanks again everyone, love you all!

this thread must look a bit odd now 12234's posts have gone.

[Pippa68]

Hi Milly,

Sorry I have come in to this late but I just wanted to send my best wishes to you ~ I have been through the same pain regarding termination & although I didn't see the *morons* post I can gather what might have been said.

Please take care of yourself & rest as much as you can. Your cycle will return to normal as long as you relax & take it easy.

*massive cyber hugs*

[Kay]

Take care milly and as for you 122345...SHUT UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[tigilou]

Hi milly have a look on www.babyworld.co.uk they have a special forum for this subject you are also next to others who are in the same position.

Take care xxx

[Dr Salyikova]

I did not read the remarks that have hurt you Milly143 but I would like you to know that I do not agree with people being treated badly for having an abortion. Please remember however that often women who have an abortion try to avoid the truth and facts of abortion in an attempt to justify what they have done.As a psyciatrist I have had to listen to young women who feel guilty and distraught at what they had done and were not told about what an abortion really involved.To any young women who are thinking of having an abortion remember not to avoid the points that you do not like and understand exactly what you are doing.Only when you know the facts can you know what is right to do.

[Pippa68]

Are you a medical Doctor or a Doctor of something else? I only ask because if you are in the medical field maybe you could advise Milly best regarding her cycle..she has not asked any specific question regarding her mental state as yet.

[Rhia89]

Look i dont no who wrote that awful comment, But i got onto this site because i have also had an abortion and was curiouse about my period...There is always a good reason why woman get abortions..And people complain about woman having abortions..But if you dont have the resources to bring another human into the world you cant take the risk that it might not have a good life..And i couldnt do that..There is always good reasons for all you rude people out there...The people that understand..Thank you = )