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Relationship advice needed
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I agree with posy-jo that you need to make a clean break from your ex.
I was in a similar situation with my ex, we were together over 6 years. The last year was very on off on off, but I couldn't make that final break. Eventually I just spoke to her (in person, thats for the best) and made it 100% clear that everything (inc sex) was finished. That really helped me move on and sort myself out.
As for the new guy. I think he genuinely likes you, he wouldn't have bothered doing the touchy feely stuff if all he wanted was sex. rom my experience (yes I do have some ;-) ) If a guy is just after sex, thats all he makes the effot to get!
But don't wait around for him to make up his mind about whether he is going to see you tomorrow night. As you may end up with nothing to do. My advice is to make plans with your own mates tomorrow and show him that your not a complete push over and if he wants to see you, then he has to mk some of the effort/ commitmnet too!
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