Anal Diazapan

[tamirra]

Ive been prescribed anal diazapan to relax me before intercourse due to past problems, do you think this is a good idea?

[Slapshot]

Afetr 24years tamirra, i think you can safely say that he's yours forever and that he'll want to be there to help you as much as he can. your marriage is a partnership, for you both to get the best out of this he needs to be there to help you through it. Don't forget it'll have been a tough run for him as well, he'll have frustrations, concerns and worries about it as well (and i don't mean the sexual ones) get the help you need flower, both of you

[tamirra]

Yeah i know your right, just dont want to upset him too much, he took his vows seriously when we married, and he marries for life regardless, probally his religion helps too, im not the religious sort but he is.

[netibiza]

Good luck to you, do try the anal diazapan, it will be awkward to insert at first and you'll have to try to relax (mich easier said than done), once it's there , keep it there, I'm not joking but you will want to expel if you see what I mean, after 5 mins all should be well and the effect should take place, also lay down after insertion with legs up, somehow that is easier. yes here in Ibiza anal medicines were all the doc would give us in the 70's and 80's and I hated having to do this to my daughter, but she needed the med quickly and it gets absorbed into the blood much quicker as it avoids all the stomach workings etc.

good luck and make it work and enjoy your marriage!!!

[tamirra]

Thank you netibiza i will try my best, i know it wont be easy but im willing to give it my all. X

[Androcles]

Dear Tamirra, you have been through so much and it shows you care for your husband that you are prepared to go though all this for him as well as yourself. My small plea would be that he has had to be involved in your pain, so do not shut him out of trying to resolve it, you are a partnership and I am sure that he wants to do all he can to help you.

Most of us can only imagine what you have been through and can only offer some moral support, little as that may be, but as one of the others said, there are a lot of kind people on here willing you on to succeed.

Best wishes to both of you and our hopes that you come to a resolution.

A.

[tamirra]

Thank you Androcles for your kind words. xx

[Bbbananas]

you see tamirra - people do care! No-one has took the mickey, no-one has been rude and everyone has took you seriously and sympathised. You will I hope find that same attitude from your counsellor.

Androcles & slapshot are right to a degree - do try and involve your husband, if not at the initial stage of counselling, then as soon as you feel able.

Good luck love, keep us updated. x

[tamirra]

Thank you and i will once ive tried the diazapam, maybe if i have a drink or 2 it might help too. xx

[Bbbananas]

no more than 1 or 2 though !!

[yogi-bear]

Hi tamirra,

Having just read through this thread, i echo what everyone here says, and wish you and your husband all the very best for the future, my lovely.
Take care now xxx

[tamirra]

Morning, sorry cant pluck up the courage yet to try, didnt have a drink either incase it led to sex, but will get there. xx

[yogi-bear]

Morning tamirra,

You will, sweetheart......in your own time and when you're ready. Send you lots of love xxx

[tamirra]

Thank you yogi, i know i will get there, but i think i want a kick up the bum, my hubby has so much patience its unbelievable.

[Bbbananas]

There is no rush Tamirra - don't put pressure on yourself xx

[tamirra]

I know i will get there sometimes, but in the meantime how do i know that hubby will carry on waiting, i know he has waited now for many years and probally will wait for many more, who knows, he just turned to me last night and said " i love you so much" how sweet is that after all i put him through. xx

[jno]

not a kick up the bum - just a pill!

[tamirra]

LOL yeah your right. x

[netibiza]

You can satisfy each other without full penetration, but I guess you've tried that!

[tamirra]

Well to tell you the truth it does the same to me as plucking up the courage to have full sex, because in my mind i know it wont stop at foreplay it will lead to full sex, which im scared off.

[netibiza]

Well, you can't beat a good cuddle, and your hubby sounds wonderful.