My boyfriend

[ShallowQueen]

thinks I'm shallow, I'm 16 he's 17 we're together almost a year.
I like to go out with my friends,but he dosnt like me going out with my friends, even if I call into a mates houses he's waiting at my home (my mothers home) for me when I get home!

[ShallowQueen]

It's 4-pm my time here, that's about 2-am EE time.

[bunkmoreland]

pathetic so called shallow queen, you are a disgrace! So many real women suffer abuse and you come on here pretending to be in an abusive relationship relationship!!

[NOX]

You have options, all people do in the free world, no-one can stop you 'taking your children on holiday', I too have doubts about the legitimacy of your post, but if it is true then my advice stands, money is something which can be obtained to do something important should you need to, clearly getting out of your bad situation isn't one of your priorities, so why bother posting for advice since you seem adamant that you are stuck where you are? None of this makes the smallest amount of sense.

[lady-janine]

what is NZ policy on two young men with 3 children?

[NOX]

Missed that Lady Janine lol.

[bunkmoreland]

please look at what bunkmoreland says ....ffsks

[ShallowQueen]

I never said I was in an abusive relationship again you're reading things wrong, It's more of a controlling relationship I'm in. Just because I come on here with this problems doesn't make me an attention seeker, I posted on here because I can be anonymous and get advice from others in similar situations.

[bunkmoreland]

earlier on....the whole thread is made up

[ShallowQueen]

LadyJayne, I don't know what you mean?

[NOX]

...and then ignore that advice with half arsed reasons why you can't be free as you say you wish to be... doesn't make sense. At worst it's trollish and at best it's attention seeking behaviour from someone involved in a situation who loves the attention and drama. IF you are for real and unhappy then there is only one solution- get the hell out of there, you can hardly blame people for doubting you when you seem hell bent on not doing that- and why ARE you both male, are the children all adopted?

[NOX]

Yeah I've already read you Bunkmoreland, and I tend to agree.

[ShallowQueen]

LadyJaane, I see now what you mean, my profile says male. obviously an oversight on my part. I'm female!

[ShallowQueen]

I ticked the wrong box when registering, sorry!

[ShallowQueen]

Regardless of how I come across to you lot, my problems are real, all I wanted was someone to talk to about them, NOX you seem kind an compassionate, thank you for listening and for your advice.

[bunkmoreland]

i just dont get why trolls need to feed? whats gone wrong in your life??

[ShallowQueen]

You're a very rude person bunkmoreland, ask yourself, whats gone wrong in your life?

[lady-janine]

you are really taking the urine. mental control is cruelty and therefore is an abuse.

some people need a lot of help when this happens and it is not a good idea to cry wolf.

nuff said.

[ShallowQueen]

LadyJ are you saying I'm having a laugh? that so far from the truth, I hope you don't ever have problems in life but if you do and you reach out to someone only to be laughed at...... well, it's what you deserve.

I really appreciate NOX's words and will definitely take them to heart.

[tamborine]

If you can support yourself, leave him. Kids may not want to leave their dad & are too young to decide, dont disturb their lives for your pleasures.