My boyfriend

[ShallowQueen]

thinks I'm shallow, I'm 16 he's 17 we're together almost a year.
I like to go out with my friends,but he dosnt like me going out with my friends, even if I call into a mates houses he's waiting at my home (my mothers home) for me when I get home!

[Mamyalynne]

Too young to be getting serious, carry on enjoying your life.

[woofgang]

simples.....dump him.

[MASS1961]

Move on, get rid quick, with respect ShallowQueen, you're a kid/young adult, Enjoy it!

[Mick-Talbot]

What's the question?

[Canary42]

Dump him

[baza]

get rid and enjoy life without him.

[Wharton]

He thinks you're shallow and you call yourself ShallowQueen? What's his name, Johnny Deep?

[Hopkirk]

Dump him and get a girlfriend.

[boxtops]

Much too young to be getting yourself tied down with a killjoy - he sounds very insecure. Tell him you don't like his attitude. No boyfriend is better than one who doesn't trust you.

[ShallowQueen]

He thinks I'm shallow because I want to go out with my friends to clubs and stuff. I love him and i like the attention he gives me.

[windywillow]

IMO you are far too young to be tied to one lad. There will be plenty of time to go steady once you've sown a few oats. Him too.

[ShallowQueen]

Moving forward 10 years and 3 children later,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, I feel trapped, we moved to New Zealand, he moved me away from my family, I never wanted to leave, give it a year he said, I could never settle down, I missed my family and friends back home ,,,,,,,,I HATE HIM!!!!!!!!!

[windywillow]

You have a time machine? Wow! :0)

[ShallowQueen]

My post was from the beginning of our relationship, (sorry to be deceiving) just letting people know how it turned out, so far. I'm still in the same boat. I've no family(mom/dad/siblings) around me, I feel I have to stay in this relationship, I depend on him for everything.

[NOX]

Okay same advice as before - dump him and move back home. Don't say you 'can't' or stay 'for the sake of the kids' just do it.

[ShallowQueen]

That's not easy to do now NOX, not when you have 3 children settled in schools.

[NOX]

I knew you'd find an excuse to stop yourself. If you really 'HATE HIM' then you are doing your kids no favours staying with him as it will adversely affect them long term. I know full well about uprooting kids to take them to another country, kids resettle remarkably quickly, so do yourself ( and them) a favour and leave, or at least if you're not prepared to do something about it then I'd stop worrying about it.

[ShallowQueen]

NOX, your very wise, I'm 3 thousand miles from my home country, I'd love to go back home but i'ts financially impossible. I went back home 5 years ago to see my family but he wouldn't let me take the children with me, he knew if I did I wouldn't come back to hi, he didn't say that but we bot knew what he was thinking.

[bunkmoreland]

you created your account last night,check it out,you are another attention seeker dear"shallow" queen , no real 16 or 17 year old spends halloween on answerbank

[ShallowQueen]

Bunkmoreland, I'm not a teenager, I've explained above.