Sex Addict

[MadMen]

I wasnt going to ask this as its such a personal subject but here goes.
I have recently started dating a guy who is a few years younger than me. He is absolutely amazing. He treats me so well and is unbelievably gorgeous.
The trouble is, he seems to just want sex. All the time.
We only see each other on weekends (I have kids and don't want to confuse them) and he says that this isnt enough.
He meets me on my lunch break, and asks for sex. He picks me up from work, and asks for sex. He asks me to stay over at his, and asks for sex.
I don't deny him, but for me it's just not on my list of priorities. I always think of what I can be doing... like my work from home or the kids' ironing.
I am 30 and he is 23. I wonder if this is the problem?
He says he and his ex had sex 3-4 times a day! Seriously, I'd be happy with once a week. I am honestly not bothered about sex, but don't want to sound like a bore...

[MadMen]

ZM - you are somewhat amusing. Thankyou :-)

[elliemay1]

I honestly think he's not for you. I think you're flattered by his attention as he's so gorgeous. But I think you know it won't last as you don't want to introduce him to your children. Finish with him as you're worth so much more. He sounds immature.

[joggerjayne]

So just addressing the practicalities for a mo ...

He wants, err ... "it" ...

Quick beejay ... He won't say no to that ... then you can get on with your ironing ... you don't even have to get undressed if you avoid, err ... "spillage"?

And you don't have to do the whole sex thing.

... okay, I'm going to stop there.

[MadMen]

JJ, I give him plenty of BJs. He's not satisfied with that. He wants full sex... morning, noon and night

[Zacs-Master]

LOL but wrong answer.

[joggerjayne]

Oh. Well, it was just a thought.

[woofgang]

Do you think that any part of your uncertainty is that he wants sex not sex with you? I also have to wonder what he does all week and with whom?

[MadMen]

Ellie, I think you're right.
I think I was waiting for an answer like this :-(
Thanks again xx

[gness]

Mmmmmmmmmmmmm.

[MadMen]

Thanks Woofgang. Not really thought of that :-((

[DTCwordfan]

I must say I thought that too, woofgang......or he has a hell of a laundry bill for the sheets etc.

[elliemay1]

You're welcome. MadMen. Hope it works out for you.

[MadMen]

Woofgang, Dt,
He is at work all week, although I dont know this as fact.

[DTCwordfan]

Well I am off to bed - I would summarise this as your kids must come first and being shagged eight times a weekend with them around is not your first priority.....life has to be more balanced for you so either he adapts or......

[Iluvspikey]

If you think you can keep up with him, then carry on, but you'll resent him in the end, refuse and he'll go elsewhere and you've got to think of your sexual health. Your relationship seems to be based purely on sex, is there time for anything else?

[yogi-bear]

He's not satisfied with that. He wants full sex...

He He He wants He He He's not satisfied! For Funks Sake

I dont think you fully understood my comment earlier. If i was a young lady free and single and like yourself, and had kids I adored, and had fun with this chap, THEN started to doubt what I had gotten into...I would'nt hesitate for one minute to say ENOUGH now...fun while it lasted, but enough!..and there wouldnt be anything I wouldnt do for my kids either.......its up to you, MM .....keep being used like a convenient object...cos if he wasnt getting it from you, he most certainly will get it from someone else.

I think this has probably run its course, going by what you have said, and you are looking for a way out and if I were you, i'd end it pretty soon, before it gets more complicated and something happens that you will ultimately regret.

Sorry to be blunt again part 2....lots of luck, MM whatever you decide on. x

[MadMen]

Dt, kids come first - always!
Spikey - I can't keep up with him.

[lady-janine]

MM you've matured and have other demands on your time and it sounds as though he needs counselling. good luck.

[atalanta]

Enjoy it while it lasts.