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MadMen | 22:33 Wed 23rd Jan 2013 | Body & Soul
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I wasnt going to ask this as its such a personal subject but here goes.
I have recently started dating a guy who is a few years younger than me. He is absolutely amazing. He treats me so well and is unbelievably gorgeous.
The trouble is, he seems to just want sex. All the time.
We only see each other on weekends (I have kids and don't want to confuse them) and he says that this isnt enough.
He meets me on my lunch break, and asks for sex. He picks me up from work, and asks for sex. He asks me to stay over at his, and asks for sex.
I don't deny him, but for me it's just not on my list of priorities. I always think of what I can be doing... like my work from home or the kids' ironing.
I am 30 and he is 23. I wonder if this is the problem?
He says he and his ex had sex 3-4 times a day! Seriously, I'd be happy with once a week. I am honestly not bothered about sex, but don't want to sound like a bore...
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Lots of good advice on here already but thought I'd add my opinion. He is very lucky he has a nice face. Because of this fortunate genetic fact, he has been able to sail along, having sex with who he pleases. And because we are genetically programmed to mate with a good, fit, even-featured specimen, you have fallen for his pretty package. But watch the ducks. The...
11:48 Fri 25th Jan 2013
Can I have his phone number
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ha ha. Thanks for making me laugh :D
Not sure what your question is.
He's got a high sex drive, and it's a new relationship. Not unusual.
Can I join the queue behind grasscarp please?
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I think what I should have said, is I just don't seem to have a massively high sex drive. I'm always worrying about work and the kids, and I never really think of sex as being a priority.
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Lol. Thanks ladies.
Am I weird then, for not wanting the same?
In all honesty, I just can't be bothered.
Are we supposed to feel sorry for you???
One of the things that women have to do to have satisfactory sex and some good orgasms is to clear their brains of such worries.

Read your Cossy, MadMen.....
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/secrets-orgasmic-women-3
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Elliemay, oh my goodness. Not at all!
I was just asking whether or not this is normal?
Is it normal for someone of my age to not have a high sex drive?
You're incompatible and this fairly major hurdle will just fester away at your relationship. Sorry to be so blunt but, deep down, you know this, otherwise you wouldn't have posted the question.
Bit slow there, DT
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Thank you, DtCrosswordfan. I really do appreciate that.
I have quite a few worries and stresses at the moment, so I wonder if this is the reason.
I really, really fancy him, but I just can't be bothered with sex. I'd much rather a cuddle.
just having an orgasm, sibs,........
He's 23, sex is the only thing on his mind which makes him horny and wanting it all the time.
Talk then..........
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Zacs-Master, I think you are probably right.
We get on really well as personalities, but not in the bedroom. I want love, he wants to flump like a porn star!
(sorry, that's the only way I can describe him!) :)
People just differ, and there's no such thing as "normal".

Particularly in the early stages, some people just want to shag the other person's pants off all the time.

Look on the bright side ... at least you know he finds you attractive. It's not a bad starting point.
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DT, I have tried talking with him.
I talk about work, and how stressed I am. He says I could do with a massage - which leads to him getting an... er.. you know.

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JJ, I don't even think it's that.
I get the feeling he would find a nun attractive! He's like a dog on heat!!

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