ChatterBank1 min ago
Sex Addict
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I wasnt going to ask this as its such a personal subject but here goes.
I have recently started dating a guy who is a few years younger than me. He is absolutely amazing. He treats me so well and is unbelievably gorgeous.
The trouble is, he seems to just want sex. All the time.
We only see each other on weekends (I have kids and don't want to confuse them) and he says that this isnt enough.
He meets me on my lunch break, and asks for sex. He picks me up from work, and asks for sex. He asks me to stay over at his, and asks for sex.
I don't deny him, but for me it's just not on my list of priorities. I always think of what I can be doing... like my work from home or the kids' ironing.
I am 30 and he is 23. I wonder if this is the problem?
He says he and his ex had sex 3-4 times a day! Seriously, I'd be happy with once a week. I am honestly not bothered about sex, but don't want to sound like a bore...
I have recently started dating a guy who is a few years younger than me. He is absolutely amazing. He treats me so well and is unbelievably gorgeous.
The trouble is, he seems to just want sex. All the time.
We only see each other on weekends (I have kids and don't want to confuse them) and he says that this isnt enough.
He meets me on my lunch break, and asks for sex. He picks me up from work, and asks for sex. He asks me to stay over at his, and asks for sex.
I don't deny him, but for me it's just not on my list of priorities. I always think of what I can be doing... like my work from home or the kids' ironing.
I am 30 and he is 23. I wonder if this is the problem?
He says he and his ex had sex 3-4 times a day! Seriously, I'd be happy with once a week. I am honestly not bothered about sex, but don't want to sound like a bore...
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Lots of good advice on here already but thought I'd add my opinion. He is very lucky he has a nice face. Because of this fortunate genetic fact, he has been able to sail along, having sex with who he pleases. And because we are genetically programmed to mate with a good, fit, even-
11:48 Fri 25th Jan 2013
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Hey Smowball, Ha ha. Glad it made you smile :-) I did have the big chat with him yes. It actually went a lot better than I thought and things have been less er demanding since! He felt like I wasn't making any time for him and that I was always busy with other things, work the kids etc. I told him none of that will ever change but I would put in more effort and spend more time with him. I did actually start by saying I'm not sure it's going anywhere but we both came to the conclusion that we enjoy each others company - when he's not pestering me. I won't be introducing him to the kids at any time soon as I genuinely don't think things will ever be at a point where I want him to play an active part in their lives. He says he really wants to meet them and suggests us doing things together over the weekend but I don't really want him to see that side of me. Besides, their father would hit the roof if he thought someone else was trying to muscle in on playing dad!
So yeah, all in all it went ok. We have a giggle and that's about it. I think we'd be better of as friends with benefits but even that gets complicated!
So yeah, all in all it went ok. We have a giggle and that's about it. I think we'd be better of as friends with benefits but even that gets complicated!
