How Do I Ask Out A Shy Girl When Im Shy Myself?

[MetalShredder33]

Ok, so im in high school and ending my freshman year. Ive known this girl since elementary school and on. Recently, ive started noticing her ( not in a creepy way). Just suddle things like how she dresses and acts around her friends and such. Our eyes have met several times iand we've both caught each other starring at one another. She is a shy girl and ive probably heard her speek a handful of times and im the same way. Ive been falling for her and i think i wanna make the risk of asking her out for a movie or somethimg. I have never had a girlfriend and im horrible at this kinda thing so Can anyone help me?

[maggiebee]

Think you should concentrate on your English classes meantime!

[Baldric]

However you do it, remember it must be suddle so as not to score her!

[craft1948]

I think you should concentrate on your grammar if you wish to make a good impression..............

[Baldric]

Oh, sorry craft, I thought my grammor was ok!

[craft1948]

Baldric your impression is great.............

[cupid04]

It's not the impression I get.....

[MetalShredder33]

ok almost of all you can get off. I am actually pulling a straight A in my advanced english class. Also, my grammar is not that bad compared to all the other trolls like you on the internet. All i want is a straight forward answer. The main reason why i asked this question and had so many grammatical errors is because id like to know how to aproach this girl within a week because my school is out next week.

[cupid04]

Go up to the girl and say I really like you, can I take you for a coffee. Then take it from there. Good luck.

[MetalShredder33]

Thank you cupid04 for having the decensy to answer my question. It helps!

[Wharton]

Do what cupid04 said, and, with a bit of luck, she'll say "No". I'm only kidding lad, go for it, & good luck :-)

[Clanad]

Tell her how good she smells (if in fact she does). Young ladies always like that kind of compliment. Great for an opening...

Don't for goodness sake though, tell her you want to know what it is so you can buy it for your Mom! That's so wrong on so many levels...

[FredPuli43]

With wharton and cupid on this. Never told a girl she smelled nice, but Clanad obviously got close and intimate on first meetings !

(And the word sounds like 'suddle', but it's spelled 'subtle')

[boxtops]

Telling someone they smell nice is not a good ploy for a first date.....

[jim360]

Yeah, I'd stick to "you look nice".

[sebhfhion]

Boxtops: Telling someone they smell nice , what's wrong with that ?
Why are people taking the mickey out of this poster, are the first blossomings of love so far back in your archives you find it hard to remember what it felt like?

[sebhfhion]

Metalshredder, she will probably feel the same, very shy so don't over do things. Next conversation say something like, oh you smell nice whats your perfume or 'that dress/top/ pants (trousers) really suit you. How she reacts to this will give you a sign if she's interested or not. If she blushes thats a good sign ;-). Invite her for a coffee or an ice cream,a walk in the park,somewhere public so she doesn't feel pressured that this is some sort of heavy date . good Luck and let us know how you get on x

[FredPuli43]

Metal S, Clanad and seb obviously get so close to a shy or nervous date that they can sniff her.

Now, girls and women do not wear perfume in order to be smelled from anything less than very close; if you remark about it when you aren't close enough to touch he skin with your nose, she'll think "Oh no! I am wearing too much!" and that will make her even more edgy and self-conscious than she was before. (And I certainly don't recommend putting you nose to her ear lobes on first meeting!)

[sebhfhion]

Fred: LOL! Girls put on perfume to smell nice, full stop. When I spray on my Chanel Coco to go shopping it's not in anticipation of someone following me like a sniffer dog trying to get up close and personal. I am often complimented on my fragrances, and take it as that, a very nice compliment.

[FredPuli43]

Yes, seb, but you haven't been a self-conscious woman lately, I suspect ! like a sniffer dog? Not quite; that would not be sniffing your ears, neck, or other 'hot' spots !

I'm prepared to guess that comments on the scent you are wearing come more often from women than men. Women are more interested in "What is that you are wearing?" than we are, and our sense of smell is so poor that you'd have to be wearing Jeye's fluid or ammonia before we'd notice anything as subtle to us as Air du Temps or Coco

[DTCwordfan]

the wolves will be baying tonight with all these perfumes in the air......