Guy problem

[Claza]

I really like this guy at university, but he is a bit of a serial charmer.  In the past few years he has had over 10 girlfriends, varying from 3 weeks to 1.5 years.  Can a guy like this ever change and stop flitting from one girl to the next or can people like this never be trusted?

[Booldawg]

your gut instinct says 'avoid'  -go with it!

[Andy008]

No is the simple answer. Jimmy Carr brilliantly decscribed the male sexual psyche:

"Jude Law cheated on Sienna Miller with a woman who looks like Sienna if she was repeatedly hit in the face with a shovel. He didn't sleep with her because she was more attractive than his fiancee, he did it because she was in the house and has a vagina"

[Scarlett]

I wouldn't lower yourself actually. You will probably end up being just another notch on his bedpost. If you REALLY like him, become his friend. Then in 10 years time when he is balding and has got over his university years, you can ask him out and take it from there!

[Claza]

Thanks for that, you're so right!  And Jimmy Carr speaks such truth.

We're actually already really good friends, so I think we'll leave it at that for a while!!!