Do younger girls like older men?

[Kev_UK]

OK, before anyone jumps to the wrong conclusion, I'm not talking about kids. Do 18 - 30 year old girls (women) like men in their 40's and why?
I am 44, but don't act like a pensioner.. my ex wife was 4 yrs older than me. Do younger women like guys my age.. and why? There must be some that can talk English (not this text lingo) that don't do drugs or binge drinking, and couldn't care less about pubs n clubs, and aren't saddled with kids.
Are older men seen as a walking wallet, or as stable and mature?
What kind of chat up lines work?

[Proactivity]

I don't think you can generalise too much, but it's fair to say 'some do'.  My 18yo (working, non-binge-drinking, non-smoking, non-drug using) girlfriend voluntarily left her 18yo boyfriend to be with me, a 35yo with all my own teeth and hair, and I didn't even use a chat up line!  By the end of the year we'll be 'saddled' with a little girl that we're both very much looking forward to. Meanwhile my 21yo ex is going out with a 59yo.

[jno]

wow, you've got jumped on from a great height here... To answer your question: some women like older men, some like younger ones (the reverse is also true). Most people, however, bond better with people roughly their own age, as they're more likely to have had similar life experiences. So the pool of possibilities is younger if you're fishing outside your own age group. You make it even smaller if you are too restrictive in your own requirements. Personally, I wouldn't have thought you were being too restrictive, though: dislike of rolls of fat, binge drinking and kids is pretty widely shared, and plenty of women feel the same way.

What may have upset some of those who've replied already is that you're too ready to prejudge - dismissing people out of hand because of their shape rather than getting to know them. This does limit the number of people available to you, but it is also more widespread than some people would be prepared to admit. I bet most of the people who've replied have at some stage passed on someone because they just didn't fancy his/her looks.

Can't help you with chat-up lines - I've always preferred simple honesty and a sense of humour (which, in the face of adversity, you seem to have!)

[Otrere]

When I was 18 I met my ex - we were together for 11 years.

Over the last 7 years of that relationship I had a passionate affair with a married man who was 10 years my senior. He made me feel wanted and needed and sexy (whereas my ex didn't and I was very unhappy with him but too insecure to make the break) but I could never say that I loved the married man or wanted a "normal" relationship with him.

Then I met my now husband who is just 2 years older than me. Both my ex and the married man went straight out of the window. I've never been happier.

Saying that, I know someone who last year married a man 22 years her senior and they have a son who is nearly a year old.

Its the same with any relationship - I don't think age really matters - its how you get on personality-wise and as a couple that is important.

[Travelchic06]

Well....I'm a young female, and I must say, older men are AMAZINGLY sexy. I'm not talking about old geezers 60+...oh gosh...NO. I'm talking within the range of 30-55. Where every young women will have fantasies concerning. I LOVE that they are (hopefully) very mature, both in the physical and emotional department. ^_^ I love their big, hard- working hands, and how they feel touching my soft skin. Older men give so much more to a relationship that younger men just simply have a hard time doing. They KNOW what PLEASES us, what makes us TICK.. But the most sexiest thing an older man can have is inteligence and confidence. Can anyone say HOTT????

[Harleystman]

she will let him know she is alive in that time and send to him a message through time to help her to be with him when words of many hold her captive, all the flesh that she gives birth to be it one child or one hundred are the children of her lover and should be raised as such and loved as such, when a man takes a women through time he takes all of her and thus she of him
your flesh is your flesh but through time you are never apart and through the body of one she makes love to she makes love to you, so although the sire of flesh of the child was not your flesh the conseption was and is for she will not give birth to any other mans child but one who comes in your name, So this man who places the seed in her woumb has knowledge of you if you are weak through the many he will use this to steal you love through time, but if you are strong and your love is true you can destroy him by letting her know although a child has came to be this man is not me, loose this weak love bring our child and you to me, let me comfort my wife from her long travel through time let me raise my child by the flesh I be, Let me be the shelter you always seek through time together we shall always be. "A HOME, A FAMILY, AND I SHALL NEVER LET YOU GO ALONE EVER AGAIN NO MATTER WHAT ATTEMPTS TO SEPERATE US.
So lower the lights to just a dim haze and see me here in the shadows of time for in this light we are the same time, my touch shall open the doors that once held you back and your love shall give me the strengh to live longer in this time of flesh to just be with you once more as once we was.

tc 2007

[neo.]

Im 36 and am romancing a 25 Russian bird by email. She tells me she loves me...so the answer clearly is YES...they do love us oldies.

Mind you its probably a scam to get me to send money over or to get a visa to work here....but heck if shes great in the sack then no matter

[CactusButtus]

Ah ha! My partner is 35 years old than me. He isn't no where near a walking wallet. LOL! But no, to me they are just stable and mature. Money has nothing to do with it when it comes to me - other women may be different... there are some gold-diggers out there. To me, love is blind and can't count either!

Jaymee-Lee