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Marriage Help
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Ok this is alittle long. But i have been married 3 months and with a man off and on 3 years. We dated for awhile i got pregnant, during this time of pregnancy i found out he had another young woman pregnant and from her found out he had a wife, this was 2 years agom by this time he had me give everything and move in with him with my 2 other children from prior relationship. We lived together for 1 year while he promised over and over to divorce his wife he has been separatelld from for 3yrs. Of course this divorce never happened and he left the home we shared with a eviction notice because come to find out he wasnt paying the bills and then bought our then 3 month old baby to the police department stating he did not want him and he was moving. So they ended up putting and the children in foster care. While there i had to find work and a place of my own so the children could return. Once i got them back i moved back to the town he had me move from and built our life. It was hard but i did it. Well, come to find out the reason for his sudden move was to return to the wife i didnt know about until a year into our relationship. He ruined my name to everyone and she ended up leaving him again. He bounced around unstable for 8 months and then suddenly called to inquiry about ill 1 year old baby. He came around to spend time with him and some how won my heart once again (yes i was stupid for this) but i believed his lies once again. After sometime she decided to file divorce against him because he never did, and strongly i dont believe he wanted to. So we married a month after his divorce. He promised to never lie, deceive again. I asked for him to cut all ties from her and her friends who all didnt like me because they felt i got in the way of their marriage (which i couldnt understand because i never knew he was married until a year later) but of course he couldnt cut ties for long he started speaking to those same friends and going to his ex wife job offer,claiming to make purchases since she works in a retail shop. Well i decided this man isnt over his wife i told him to leave and never come back unless its court order visitations. He left gracefully almost like thats what he wanted. Well for the 8 months i had him living in my home he paid nothing and come to find out he was homeless when i allowed him back. I married him with genuine love but now he said he will start divorce proceedings immediately. How should i handle this and what would be your opinions on this whole situation. Thank you
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