Just An Update

[tinkerbell23]

For anyone who was thinking of me thank you very very much for the kind words & messages!

After an 11hour labour Baby Tink was born at 13 weeks..... so tiny but perfectly formed!

My own little fairy.......

Post mortem is this coming week. They think it was ?hydrops. I genuinely have no idea what this is.

I am tired, crampy and in a bit of a bubble. Feels like I watched it on TV rather than it happening? Hospital gave me a lovely memory box.

Im not feeling very lucky right now but I do have AMAZING friends & family.


Xxxx

[kvalidir]

So sorry for what you had to go through Tinks and so much love to you xxx

[Rockrose]

Xx thinking of you

[Mamyalynne]

Much love ♥

[Barmaid]

Thinks I wish you love and strength xx

[pastafreak]

((((HUGS))))to you Tinks. Xx

[goodgoalie]

I'm sure you have amazing friends and family, but I have to say I think you are amazing - to have gone through this distressing experience but still be positive enough to be able to write the above, without self-pity or rancour. Sincere best wishes to you.

[tonyav]

Very sad all off this, tinks. Much love and condolences.

[TonyV]

Sending you my love and best wishes xx

[gness]

I'm so sorry for what you are going through, Tinks...Love Gx

[marval]

I am so sorry you have had to endure this. I wish all the best for the future. xx

[Barmaid]

TINKS I'm sorry. Bloody autocorrect.

[albaqwerty]

wishing you well ((hugs)) xxxx

[maggiebee]

So sorry you had to go through this Tinks. Stay strong ((hugs)) x

[sunny-dave]

Love and hugs to an amazing Tinks

D xx

[tinkerbell23]

Thank you all!!

Goalie I try to share (its not everyones cup of tea) & I have had many people approach me who have had similar experiences....

I try to learn & I have learned that now IS the time and we do want a baby ...

& I try to be a better person, I didnt realise quite how horrible a “misscarriage” is.... to me this is a touch more than a “misscarriage”

In work I will remember to be kinder when people want to ask “stupid” questions! I always was kind but I admit to the odd inward sigh or eyeroll on the
Phone!!

Long journey ahead. Bit worried there might be future implications but will cross that bridge when we come to it eh xxx

[BANANASPLITS]

How very very sad tinks big hugs and kisses for you xx

[anneasquith]

A very traumatic experience for you. So sorry. But... It is unlikely you will ever feel as sad as you do today.

[Lie-in King]

Much love, ((Tinks)) x

[johnk]

Tinks, thinking of you.

[rowanwitch]

So glad you could see your little one it will help a lot as you grieve. When the time is right and you are recovered we will be with you again with everything crossed Take care and build your fairy garden.