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my son has been in prison again, where he got clean again ,he is now living on the street and back on heroine .I can't see any future for him and just waiting for the knock on the door .sorry to bore you with this again but I just want to get it off my chest as it is breaking my heart .
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He has a switch which flicks back on after rehabs and getting him away from places/situations/people which would flick his switch back on.
No matter how many times you are told that it's nothing to do with his upbringing or anything like that, please, please, please believe them.
Everyone has done their utmost, several times over, and willingly and with love.
Please look after yourself and Mr Mally xxxx
He has a switch which flicks back on after rehabs and getting him away from places/situations/people which would flick his switch back on.
No matter how many times you are told that it's nothing to do with his upbringing or anything like that, please, please, please believe them.
Everyone has done their utmost, several times over, and willingly and with love.
Please look after yourself and Mr Mally xxxx
mally - my mum told me many years ago that there is nothing worse than your children dying before you, I think that there is, he is your son and you love him but you don't like what he has become.
I wish there was a solution - it's easy to say that he wants to change, but when your brain is actually your worse enemy it isn't so simple.
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I wish there was a solution - it's easy to say that he wants to change, but when your brain is actually your worse enemy it isn't so simple.
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Wolf I think your mother was right.
Mally, there is nothing I can say to you that will make you feel better in your despair. It must be a nightmare every waking moment and by what I can make out it has been going on for years. There is a glimmer of hope and you have to hang on to that which I'm sure you are. Take comfort where you can. I wish you and your family strength to deal with what life has thrown at you. xx
Mally, there is nothing I can say to you that will make you feel better in your despair. It must be a nightmare every waking moment and by what I can make out it has been going on for years. There is a glimmer of hope and you have to hang on to that which I'm sure you are. Take comfort where you can. I wish you and your family strength to deal with what life has thrown at you. xx
Mally, my heart goes out to you. It is unfortunate that you have tried so hard to protect and help your son, yet he is still so, so vulnerable. All you can do us always be there...in the background if need be. Do not judge him, and do not blame yourselves. His addiction is, sadly, much stronger than the help you offer. Rehab will only work when he is ready...and there are enough agencies to offer that support when he gets to that point.
I work in a drop-in where the average age of our clients is getting progressively younger each year. Many have very bad "habits". I see them,and always hope their families have not given up.
I work in a drop-in where the average age of our clients is getting progressively younger each year. Many have very bad "habits". I see them,and always hope their families have not given up.