Why Do I Hurt The Peoplle Thati Love

[nailedit]

Its a repeating patern

Was arrestest tuesday night for assaualting two of my neighbours who have each been friedsbfor over 20 0 yrs.

obiodsly i was drunk but got no memory. j.

lAst people on on earth id want to hurt,loce them both to bits.

 

beenn friends for years.  But now want tt just to off myself. Cant du e another jail senence adain.

wAS In cells for almost a day, had to be tackin hospita for th duratation becauase i close to fitting,

FF     sakes  

I cant do this anymore.

Due for detox in 2 weeks time, now seems a bti  poinless if im om going jail agian . anyway!

 

 

 

 

[jackthehat]

nicebloke1 - You keep telling yourself that, if it makes you feel better.

However, the rest of us have eyes in our heads

[nicebloke1]

Whatever, you have your way, I have mine. Who's to judge your way or mine is correct?? Put instructing someone else Not to post ??

[curlyfries81]

You can make all the inferences you like but I will be sure to put you straight when you are barking up the wrong tree or making unfounded accusations about me.

I am neither thoughtless, nor idiotic. I have simply ran out of sympathy for someone who is starting to wreak havoc on the lives of others. 

When he starts becoming a danger to others it's time he was taken out of society. Wouldn't you say the same about any person who poses a danger to others? Terrorists? Grooming Gangs?

And don't for one minute suggest I am comparing the poster to those people - I'm talking only in terms of being a danger to other people with his destructive behaviour.

[nicebloke1]

^^ Correct!!

[davebro3]

nailedit - are you really physically addicted - in the sense that going cold turkey would literally kill you?

Have you had the DTs after drinking? Uncontrollable shakes, hallucinations?

Just askin'

[naomi24]

People suffering from mental heath issues can do without other people's harsh versions of 'the truth'.  It so very often does more harm than good.  Think!

[wolf63]

Nailedit, you know that you are your own worse enemy.  You have to learn to give yourself credit for trying to beat your addiction. 

You know that you can do it, you have already been through it and come out the other side a happier person.

Work out what triggered you to start drinking again and make a plan of what to do if these conditions occur again.

💜

[davebro3]

If you come on a public forum parading your problems then expect all shades of response. Deletion of posts that mods consider "unhelpful" is wrong IMV.

[nicebloke1]

If (AB) find any comments to harsh or breaking any rules, then they best take the whole post down?

[jackthehat]

curlyfries81 - There's nothing like keeping things in proportion......and that ^ is nothing like keeping things in proportion.

nicebloke1 - I'll put your posts down to you suffering from a serious bout of misnomer.

 

[naomi24]

Dave, no posts have been removed here.

[nicebloke1]

Whatever^^

[davebro3]

not yet - they often are on Abbeylee's threads

[ToraToraTora]

nailedit going to love this when he wakes up!

[Barmaid]

He KNOWS that his behaviour adversely impacts others and he wants to change.  He needs help to change.  That help is something that he has sought himself and will be happening shortly.  He cannot make it happen any quicker and I have no doubt he already feels pretty worthless.

I have immense sympathy for those who are affected by his behaviour and the only way he can ensure that he does not impact others in the future is by change.  

He is obviously at rock bottom and without condoning his criminal behaviour, nor being sympathetic to him, the human in me will always go for kindness first.

[barry1010]

davebro, nailed has said before that he is physically addicted, he has DTs, he suffers hallucinations and needs medical supervision to quit drinking.

[davebro3]

well it killed Amy Winehouse so....

 

[naomi24]

I've sat hours through the night with Nailedit when he's been at his lowest.  If you can't say anything positive at least he kind and say nothing.  He's not a well man.

[naomi24]

*be* kind ...

[Boto]

Nailedit, please don't do anything silly.  Go on this detox programme, you can do it.