Crosswords0 min ago
Why Do I Hurt The Peoplle Thati Love
74 Answers
Its a repeating patern
Was arrestest tuesday night for assaualting two of my neighbours who have each been friedsbfor over 20 0 yrs.
obiodsly i was drunk but got no memory. j.
lAst people on on earth id want to hurt,loce them both to bits.
beenn friends for years. But now want tt just to off myself. Cant du e another jail senence adain.
wAS In cells for almost a day, had to be tackin hospita for th duratation becauase i close to fitting,
FF sakes
I cant do this anymore.
Due for detox in 2 weeks time, now seems a bti poinless if im om going jail agian . anyway!
Answers
Best Answer
No best answer has yet been selected by nailedit. Once a best answer has been selected, it will be shown here.
For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.
Alcohol-related blackouts are gaps in a person's memory for events that occurred while they were intoxicated. These gaps happen when a person drinks enough alcohol to temporarily block the transfer of memories from short-term to long-term storage—known as memory consolidation—in a brain area called the hippocampus
https:/
IMO Nail's simply expressing here, and knows the causes and answer. We all feel a bit better from "talking" when something bothers us. It's a pity the funding doesn't seem available to stay in a clinic for the time it takes to get clean; and then seriously & permanently chose never to touch alcohol again; whatever depressing events occur in the future. Given the lack of cash, it's back to self help and willpower once more. Oh, and maybe a short course on anger management might help too.
NailedIt is attempting to get help, Modeste. He has tried very hard to be re-admitted to a detox programme and eventually he has got a date. He derives a good deal of support from a lot of members on here, both on and off site.
NailedIt - why? I reckon two reasons - firstly, when you are in drink you are unable to moderate your behaviour and secondly because hurt people hurt.
Whatever problems some people have, or what they may think they have, craving for constant attention and receiving that attention becomes more important than the problem its self. AB appears to be your number one stop for such attention. If you really wanted to recover from a booze problem you would have done it by now. Maybe a jail term may help? Its not to long ago that you stated that you had gone x amount of weeks dry, after all the congrats, and well dones had run out of steam, the attention turned back to, I'm on the drink again, the new run of attention restarted. All the attention in the world is not going to stop you from opening that bottle, Only you, and you alone can do that, so get on with it.
NailedIt is physically addicted to alcohol. He cannot just "stop". Because of the chronic addiction he has, his body actually needs the alcohol. If he were to try and do this by himself, the outcome could be fatal. He needs medical intervention to enable him to overcome this.
Yes he does post when he is in his cups (heck, it is obvious he is not thinking clearly) and if he is being an idiot many people will tell him. But it is not quite so easy as to say "you must help yourself".
Nailed has had one stint in detox; it is not unusual for people to need five or six before succeeding.
He is not a heavy drinker too weak to give up drinking. He is an alcoholic who must have supervision and support to stop drinking safely.
It is a physical dependency; it is nothing like fancying a bar of chocolate.
Nobody has their first alcoholic drink expecting to become alcoholic.
I can understand lack of empathy for alcoholics; I can't understand people choosing to read his posts and commenting when they have no interest and nothing constructive to say.
Related Questions
Sorry, we can't find any related questions. Try using the search bar at the top of the page to search for some keywords, or choose a topic and submit your own question.