Do I Need To Be Ashamed Of Myself?

[abbeylee90]

feel really down st times as I am 32 still living at home and no full time job.

Do I need to be ashamed of myself just feel like I'm on my own.

[abbeylee90]

By some cafe 

[Prudie]

Ashamed no, that is a heavy word. Embarrassed? I would be about posting deep worrying posts about your situation and loads of concerned ABers sending you all these caring responses and you just flit off talking bout dates or clothes and irrelevances in the middle of it all. It shows very little regard for those trying to help. I think it's poor show myself.

[abbeylee90]

Do I just not open the snap if I get one?

[smurfchops]

What is a snap?  What is happening??

[abbeylee90]

Snapchat

[Clementino]

Has he messaged ?

[smurfchops]

Sorry Abby are you waiting for your date now?  

[abbeylee90]

Looks like it.

No.

[Clementino]

He should have messaged if he was going to be a Noshow

[abbeylee90]

Not sure if he going to say that

 

[Clementino]

If you do get a message, just open to see if he has an apology. If not, delete

[abbeylee90]

He overslept

[Clementino]

Rubbish excuse. He could have let you know. Wasting your time

[abbeylee90]

Asked if I could do Wednesday which I can't 

[Clementino]

He's a waste of space in my view

[abbeylee90]

Don't think it working out with me and him.

[smurfchops]

Abby even if you can do Wednesday,  don't..... or say yes and don't go.  See how he likes it.  

[naomi24]

Don't mess about or try to get your own back.   Just tell him you don't want to see him any more and move on.

[abbeylee90]

I've said I cant.

[naomi24]

Saying you can't isn't ditching him.  Tell him you don't want to see him any more.