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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Sorry to hear about your daughter. I hope she's over the worst of yesterday's events.
Hate to be Devil's Advocate, but can you be absolutely sure that the man in question was intoxicated? If he was, I think it was probably in everyone's best interests that he was removed from the waiting room, as he posed at best, a nuisance, and at worst, a threat to others and himself. Was he definitely taken away to be treated, and not to be calmed down away from other patients? I don't think that a public stern warning and an ultimatum is particularly appropriate if you don't know how someone is going to react whilst under the influence, particularly if he was being aggressive. I agree with your point on patient priority in theory - each case on its medical seriousness - but in this case there were clearly other factors to consider. I do symapthise, though, and not sure I would be quite so reasonable had I been in your position yesterday. I'm not sure if children have priority over adults. Was four and a half hours your total wait from arriving to leaving with your daughter's wrist in plaster? If so, that sounds about the norm given all the different staff/departments involved.
children don't have priority over adults.
The man could have had a head wound, or needed urgent stabilising drugs, or could have had dangerous levels of something in his blood that needed addressing, you just don't know - he wasn't just there because he was drunk!.
I agree about just getting him out of the way as you never know what someone will do next and it is putting the staff and patients at risk.
no offence but a broken wrist is not life threatening.
i waited 8 hours - overnight - once with an ectopic pregnancy - which can be fatal!
Thank you all for your answers. Paddy_36 , the male in question was most certainly intoxicated because he leaned over me to ask me if I had a cigarette and nearly knocked me out with the stale smell of alcohol as he tottered unsteadily over me. When I told him that I do not smoke , he became more fractious than before and seemed to think that I was a covert smoker who just didn't want to part with her secret stash. I wasn't thinking of perhaps a public warning . more being led to one side or taken away from the main waiting area although I appreciate what you are saying in terms of his unpredicable behaviour and the possible consequences of him remaining untreated in the waiting area. I suppose that in fairness , I am obviously a tad biased because no parent wants to see their child in pain , far less for any prolonged period and perhaps I am just venting my spleen through worry for my daughter although he was so irritating and frightening for my young daughter to watch.
Joko - It may not have been life threatening - as I have already stated - but quite clearly my daughter was in distress and a great deal of pain. Let's not forget that my daughter is EIGHT years old and doesn't have the best coping strategies as yet compared to that of an adult , so from her perspective , it IS a big deal. It didn't help matters that my daughter had to listen to this man boasting about his fighting performance through a choice of carefully selected colourful words so as I am sure you can tell from my answer , I do not have a great deal of sympathy for this man because unlike my daughter , he PUT himself in the A&E - my daughter did not and that's the difference. As I stated in my question , I acknowledge that those with a high priority should see the doctor first - I am not disputing this. My gripe is solely with the way that this man was immediately taken to a treatment room - bypassing the nurse and cutting short the whole process which others - many with clearly visible injuries and yes , many with more serious ones than my daughter - were more than happy to wait their turn. My argument is , why should this man be given a higher priority for being obnoxious ? Not that I feel that my daughter should have ben top priority as I have already stated. Whilst you have my full sympathy for the trauma you must have suffered with an ectopic pregnancy , I do not feel that it is fair to suggest that because my daughter's injury was not 'life threatening' or 'fatal' , it is less important than this man's injury !
enigma - I don't recall saying this man should be treated first - do not put words in my mouth!
I merely said, that as you are not a doctor or nurse, you have no idea what was actually wrong with him, so are hardly qualified to judge who has priority.
Also, rather than convincing me that what happened was unfair, I think, from your account, that the staff did exactly the right thing!
They have a duty to ensure the safety for everyone in the building and, according to you, he became agitated simply because you didn't have a cigarette! They were already aware he was a violent man, as he was bragging about being so earlier. They need to not only treat the already injured people, but to prevent any more people becoming injured. How do you expect them to do their job if they have to watch this mans behaviour and suffer his verbal abuse?
This man needed to be removed asap as he was becoming a threat - had he been healthy enough they would have called security to remove him from the premises - but he obviously needed some form of treatment - perhaps even just a few dressings - and they figured the quickest way to get him to leave was to treat him and then chuck him out
this makes perfect sense to me! I fail to see your problem. Sure its annoying and you were anxious about your daughter, but would you really have wanted to sit there with him while he waited his turn - for 4 hours? I doubt it! Imagine the kind of mood he'd have been in after 4 hours! It doesn't bare thinking about!
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Yes, its unfair, yes, he should have waited his turn like everyone else - but under the circumstance the safety of other people was their prority, not a broken wrist. He certainly wasn't being given 'special treatment', you say that like he was being rewarded! Their 'priority' was to remove danger, which is what they did.
What if he had attacked someone? Or something? Or you - or your daughter? You'd have been wishing they had seen him and got rid of him sooner!
As for the other comment - you asked people for their longest waiting time in triage - and I answered - i did not make a comparison to your daughters wrist. All I said was 8 hours with a potentially fatal condition! Again, don't tell me what i said.
8 hours and you think 4 hours with a broken wrist is a long time? - i'd say you were very lucky! It is always a long wait regardless of your injury - people are treated equally, its not children first - don't know where you got that idea from!
you need to calm down and stop getting irrate at people and imagining slights were there are none.
just be glad it wasn't more serious
I had the misfortune to break my foot playing football on bonfire night. Never break anything on bonfire night because you'll join a queue stretching round the block, and feel a compulsion to let the latest howling child vs sparkler incident in front of you. I must have been 6 of the most painful hours of my life there.
The last time I was in casualty with torn ligaments, (football again) I was there 4 hours and all the drinks machines were broken. When I asked if I could get a glass of water, I was told that there wasn't anywhere I could get one, and that I would just have to wait until I left. Fabulous.
Part 1 : Joko - The situation was most definitely a 'you had to be there' type. The man in question WAS there because he was drunk - whatever way you dress it up. He informed the patients in the waiting room that had been the instigator of the scuffle and seemed proud of the fact that the other men had come off worst. To reiterate the point in my last post , he - unlike my daughter - PUT himself in the A&E as a direct result of his behaviour. You seem to be trivialising the issue of my daughter's wrist and although it may not be the most serious of injuries which the A&E will have undoubtedly seen that night ( as I have already stated ) it is hardly on a par with a stubbed toe. My daughter was in distress and clearly in pain and had to listen to this man's foul language. If you had bothered to fully read my answer before your last post , you would have noted that the removal of this man from the waiting room did NOT keep my daughter away from him and in actual fact had quite the opposite effect - he was in the opposite cubicle to her for a prolonged period !
I think there are two issues here that are getting confused.
Firstly the man's drunkeness secondly his behaviour.
A&E decissions have to be made on somebody's clinical need not the manner in which they received their injury.
You can't ask medical staff to put patient A over patient B because B's injury was because he was drunk or over C because he was careless with a lawn mower - otherwise the A&E department would become a court with moral judgements being handed out!
So the real point is not that he was drunk but his behaviour.
Abusive patients are a hot topic in the NHS you might find this interesting
it's the guidelines around witholding treatment from abusive patients.
Reading between the lines I'd guess that in this case there was no actual violence and the staff thought that confrontation and "a stern warning" or whatever might precipitate it.
Given that a fist-fight in A&E could increase their workload getting him in and out sounds like a good idea.
Lets face it, if they'd tried to kick him out and you or your daughter had been hurt in the struggle that would probably have been worse.
Hope your daughter's feeling better - they mend quickly - my son broke his arm at 10 and was right as rain very quickly