Family & Relationships2 mins ago
would you or wouldnt you?
I posed this question at the end of another question I had, the response from 3 people was No, definately not, and it seemed to rile a few people up... so please be honest in your answers...
If your boyfriend or girlfriend accidently left her diary out or open on the kitchen table and went away for a weekend, how many would read it?
By the way, Im not talking about friends diaries... because in all honesty I wouldnt have an interest in them - we confide in eachother anyway... im talking Boyfriends/Girlfriends only!
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I've had my diary read before by a friend and I just felt so violated. I was going through something at the time that I wanted no one but myself and my boyfriend to know about and she read all about it and my inner thoughts.
I partly blame myself for leaving it stuffed under my pillow when she was staying in my room that night (although I didn't know she was) but our relationship has never been the same since, we barely speak now. Also we were living with another friend at the time and I know she told her because I heard them talking about it. So the answer to the question is no, I would never read someone's diary as once read, you can never go back. Especially if it was something you didn't want to read...
I definately would, as i dont trust my boyfriend at all really, ive got things out of his mates 2 by pretending 2 already know. I no thats bad but really he shouldnt have done bad things that he needed 2 lie about. If i read something bad i would just be straight with him and say i read it and if he couldnt really get angry as hes the 1 in the wrong, do u get wot i mean?