feel like life is passing me by

[Minxie]

I am an (i would say) an attractive woman. 44. My kids see thier dad (my ex husband) every other weekend, which leaves me here on my own. All my friends are married so dont want to go out. I spend my weekends alone, and feel life is passing me by. It gets me down. Who else is in the same situation?

[Zorr0]

Life begins.........

IM 35 and think ...God when I was 29 I had it all...whats happened ?

[Minxie]

ZorrO, Thats what I think. My married friends are envious of me having my weekend free. Why? All I seem to do is decorate!

[rocascool]

I'm 50 and feel the same, there is only so much Dulux you can apply!!!

[Zorr0]

All my mates barring a recent divorcee and an alcoholic are settled down. When I was 29 i cud pull every week and it was guaranteed that i would find Mrs Zorro within a short space of time as it was the right time...then what happened....Im 35 !

[Zorr0]

Ive always wanted one of them Dulux dogs ...they're great ...what are they called ? Does anyone else think theyre great ?

[electricblue]

Old english love 'em!

[electricblue]

I'm married,3 kids,37 and feel exactly the same,I want some excitement!

[Minxie]

I dont know ZorrO. The whole dating thing has changed so much. Want to come and help me decorate my kitchen tomrorrow?

[Minxie]

electricblue, so glad someone feels the same. Feel I am wasting away here.

[Zorr0]

minxie, it takes me long enuff to hoover my place never mind decorate !

[Minxie]

zorrO, I will hoover, you can just paint. Anyway, why are'nt you out on the town tonight?

[Zorr0]

I prefer going on beer sat nites...and Sunday afternoons.


Am havin a few cans in the house though...as u can prob tell by my answers and spellin

[Minxie]

zorrO, cant you tell by my questions that I am on the old vino too! hic!

[electricblue]

Minxie you gotta come out with us girls one week we live in same city so no excuses!

[PhilBy]

I am 52, been through more sh+t than any man deserves but I still wake up looking forward to the day ahead.. What has happened is yesterdays news and I will be blowed if I will let it drag me down! ...... I spent a good while doing the "I am alone & nobody understands me" routine before I decided to turn all that negative time into something productive... There is a life out there for you Minxie but it will not come looking for you ....Having been there and worn the T shirt I really hope I don't come across as a sanctimonious pratt but try to learn how to use that 'free time' for you! ... Once you feel good about yourself life is a breeze :-)

[zara 4]

You are a wise man Philby but it really isn't easy to do is it,i believe you speak the truth but its so hard getting motivated to do it when you feel so low.

[Minxie]

aw, thanks Philby, you come across as a great person. And I am not patronising. I have up days, when I feel great. And the next, I feel like Sh*t. I really feel my time is yet to come. Thanks for your lovely reply xx

[JustSia]

I suppose getting blowed when you're down, might somewhat improve one's mood. Gosh, I'm sorry, it's late and I'm feeling norty for no reason and with no bloody chance.

I am only 30. Had great plans for my life, ambitions. Now.., also a weekend loner. Stuck in a catch 22 situation. Too cynical to let myself dream, too lost in my own world to even consider venturing out and discovering someone else's. It sucks, but I still manage to find something good about life everyday.

Hopefully, sooner or later Mr JustAboutRight would knock on my door and explain to me the mysteries of the Universe and fix my washing machine. And we would live happily ever after.

S.

[Zorr0]

Who are you Sia....are you russian..it rings a bell...are you a bird ?

[Minxie]

Hi Sia, hey, we should get together us girls, weekends, bored shi*less .And why is it all the ugly women get nice men? (probably shouldnt of said that!)