facing her

[stylinsam]

im facing my boyfriends cousin for the first time tonight as we have both been asked to work behind the bar at the workingmens club by my boyfriends house.

for all of you who havnt read my post about me fighting with my boyfriends cousin. we had a fight i got the blame even though it was her fault and now my bfs family arnt speaking to me apart from his dad and brother.(cutting a long story short)

i dont no how to approach the situation should i just ignore her and speak if she speaks to me first i dont really want to apologise as she is the one who has carried it on and who gives me dirty looks when i walk past her in the street p.s im not being childish here i just dont want to look like i have given in to her if you no what i mean.

[miss_me]

i wouldnt ignore. Just walk in confidently and say hello as soon as you see her. Be quite blunt and make it clear you you have no wish to engage in conversation with her, but that your mature and it/she dosent really bother you. that way your being mature, she'll feel stupid and may even apologise!

[bellasasha]

i agree with miss-me, just be the bigger person. aknowledge her but make it clear you are not her friend...she will get the hint and maybe back down a bit...i hope your bf is on your side. i didnt see what the argument was about but i am sure it will blow over

take care hunni

xx

[bellasasha]

sorry that was meant to read "i didnt see the post about what the argument was about!"

[BigMac]

How did it go?