Attractiveness

[jibjab]

Hi, this is a question for the ladies, what characteristics do you look for in men, I will give a brief description of myself and then if you could give me ur opinions and maybe tell me what kind of women would go for me???...

Looks - good looking, look younger than i am, boyband type

Personality - Far from cocky and arrogant, quiet around people i dont know, a bit dizzy sometimes, but a good hearted guy who sometimes is too nice with women

Background - Brought up by single mum on council estate but am now doing well working as a Graphic Designer on a decent wage.

Status - Single, no kids and just recently come out of a 2 year relationship

Age - 23

Cheers everyone

[loobie]

Oh alijangra that made me smile so much!!!

[alijangra]

Infact, lets see a pic! Im willing to post my pic too.

[loopyc]

god jibjab you are getting a hard time you were brought up by a single mum on a council estate couldnt of been easy for her so full respect to her hope you are proud of her. and as for the sort of women you may attract you could have me but i think i may be a little to old(32) take no notice of the crap you are getting from what i see you dont really deserve it xx

[4getmenot]

alijangra. i agree sexyrussian is hideously ugly on the inside :-)

[Octavius]

I�m sorry jibjab I have been on AB quite a while now and this really is a case of d�j� vu with you. Of course we believe that you are young fit and healthy and good looking, with a good career etc etc, crikey, you�ve told us often enough. It just seems that you have trouble believing it yourself. Why don�t you forget the girlfriends and admirers of the past, get out there and live a little and maybe find that someone special who will admire everything that you are and will be enough to want to be with you. If you are feeling so low and devalued at the moment this is not the place to find �real� reassurance.

And regarding the council estate, why did you feel it important enough to mention?

[caz21]

jibjab! Dont get down about this! People are just saying what they feel i doubt anyone wants to make you feel bad, its just you tend to put on a lot of your posts "i'm good looking" which i think is what was meant be the me me me thing!

You tend to sound contradictory when saying i'm good looking then tell people your not cocky and arrogant in the same sentence. saying it all the time makes you sound vain thats all! i'm sure you are good looking and sound like a good enough bloke who must attract the ladies!

Just maybe try it toning down a bit! ;o) x

[Pippa68]

I don't think sexyrussian has ever had a real conversation, let alone with a working class person..don't worry yourself jibjab.

Nothing wrong with living on a council estate at all ~ probably better than sucking beetroot in Russia, but there you go.

Yet another part of her wonderful attitude to pass on to her child ~ marvellous!

[sexyrussian]

I said I am pretty because I am.You have no reason to suggest I am not.Yes some would say I am ugly on the inside but I would bet alot of money I am the prettiest girl on here.Maybe not the most attractive or the one with the best personality but I am the prettiest.As for a picture.1 I can't because I do not have a scanner.2 I can't because I am at the University libary and would get told to stop scanning my own picture 3 No one would belive it was me anyway so what is the point?

[kazzianne]

well done girls!! Some fighting spirit.Jibjab - I have lived on a council estate,and been a single mother myself,so respect to you for acknowledging that,but dont feel you have to apologise for it - your mum must have done a pretty good job.

sexyrussian - Please explain - if you are at university,studying to be a doctor,why are you trying for a baby in june -IN THE MIDDLE OF YOUR COURSE-?? and which university are you at?? And I thought you were going to be a model??

Sorry jibjab - back to your thread!

[redcrx]

Anyone seen that documentary on sky (or anglia) called hell to hotel. Stuck up russian on there too, bit mutton dressed as lamb and for all she thinks shes great she cant deal with people or life at all.

Ignore what she says jibjab

[caz21]

I doubt that darlin!!!!

[loopyc]

oh my god how wrong can i be thinking you were nice sexyrussian i really didnt want to lower myself to your level but hey here goes, you are so up your self its embarrasing are you pregnant my god your poor child!!! you are ugly on the inside so your looks stand for nothing you are nasty to people when there is no need! why dont you grow up or just **** off!!!!!!!!!

[sexyrussian]

Eveything I said was true I wanted to be a model but the company said I had to be a size 6 to join and I do not want to look anorexic.Also I decided I prefered to be a doctor more.I have already explained I want to have my baby and return to my course.P.S Can't be mutton dressed as lamb at 19.

[loobie]

Ok, having looked at the pics, for me not quite my type but you are quite an attractive guy. not as nice as my bloke though!! Wouldn't class you as boyband type though, too much stubble going on there!! you don't look younger than you are but I don't see why you wouldn't get a girl. Just get out there, have some fun and i'm sure you'll get someone!!

[loopyc]

sorry to everybody else for that outburst!

[Pippa68]

I know plenty of council estate kids who have gone onto Uni..have you asked any of your 'friends'?

[Pippa68]

Hmmmm..they probably only said you needed to be a size 6 to get rid of you.

There are loads of models bigger than a size 6.

[4getmenot]

sexyrussian you talk utter bullcr*p. So why dont you just shut that 'pretty' face of yours.

[loobie]

loopyc it was well overdue. I have been clenching my fists all day at what she's been writing. I hope she has a really ugly baby, then what will she do - it wont be so perfect after all!!!! ooo that was a bit evil of me!!

[4getmenot]

I hope she doesnt have one at all. Coz no baby deserves that as a mum.