Attractiveness

[jibjab]

Hi, this is a question for the ladies, what characteristics do you look for in men, I will give a brief description of myself and then if you could give me ur opinions and maybe tell me what kind of women would go for me???...

Looks - good looking, look younger than i am, boyband type

Personality - Far from cocky and arrogant, quiet around people i dont know, a bit dizzy sometimes, but a good hearted guy who sometimes is too nice with women

Background - Brought up by single mum on council estate but am now doing well working as a Graphic Designer on a decent wage.

Status - Single, no kids and just recently come out of a 2 year relationship

Age - 23

Cheers everyone

[B00]

Oh for gawds sake- this again?

Yes we all know you think you're God's gift, but this is not a lonely hearts column, its a question and answer site!

sorry to be harsh, but you're Q's are all me me me me.

[andy-hughes]

Not a lady jibjab, but this really is a how-long-is-a-piece-of-string question isn;t it?

To imagine that you can attract a 'sort of woman' given a set of physical characteristics, and a brief notion of who ytou are is to demean the opposite sex!

All osrts of women like all sorts of men - it's really as simple as that. Go out into the world and see what company draws to you, or not, and then you'll see. Life is not an idetikit, it doesn't work like that.

[Batty Boy]

I know you said it was a question for the ladies, but have you tried the other side cos your description does it for me, I like the pretty boy's.

[redcrx]

Girls that ONLY go for looks (not caring about personality) arent worth bothering with. BUT some guys dont care and will happily be used by such a girl in order to be seen as popular

Some nice guys will allow themselves to be treated like muck by a girl because they are frightened of being left alone. Some nice guys would have some self respect and tell such a girl to lose herself

Some girls may love a guy with a great personality and then feel insecure in the relationship if the guy was good looking.

Some girls may like a guy who can hold down a long term relationships, some may think you are on rebound and give you a wide birth.

How can anyone say who is and who isnt your type. Im sorry but this is a pointless question. NOthing is black and white. Also what you think you are may not be what another sees in you.

[zara 4]

BUT,,,,,,,,,,you sound ok to me,,ok!!

[B00]

Hahaha Zara, just wait and see...............

[dilf]

a good looking bloke on a decent wage who's only fault is that he's too nice to women

corr you've got me on the turn jibjab, i think your really attractive. how do i get the job

[kazzianne]

It just would put me off if a guy not only thought personally he was good looking,but said it all the time.You've told us endlessly how good looking you are - so who tells you this - your mates or women? And if its women.why dont they want to go out with you? (and yes I have seen your pic)

p.s.im not being sarcastic - would genuinely like you to answer.

[Octavius]

Judging from your description (again) I would say that mostly 13 year old girls would go for you.

[chazza]

Tall, dark haired, confident, well educated and polite would be who I would go for

[sexyrussian]

I will change it as if you were a woman so good looking,nice personality,brought up by a single mum on a COUNCIL ESTATE.Doesn't matter what you are now.NO!

[4getmenot]

You may not be good looking to some people. Girls do have different tastes you know.

[4getmenot]

The first thing that puts me off is the 'I'm good looking' coz if the first thing you note is looks. I found the people I've always fallen for arent people I'd necessary go for if I were looking in a club but people with the biggest heart and I couldnt care less about there looks.

[loobie]

and sexyrussian does it again!! Jibjab why don't you show us a pic of yourself so we know you're telling the truth. I haven't read any of your previous posts but you sound ok. Although if you look younger than you are that would kinda put me off as your the same age as me. Wouldn't wanna look like a cradle snatcher!!!

[4getmenot]

Nothing is wrong with being bought up on a copuncil estate. But in your question you put 'but am now doing well' as if it was a bad thing. People can do well on a council estate.

[loobie]

Oh and in reference to what sexyrussian actually said. ignore the stuck up t**t!!

[sexyrussian]

Nothing wrong with saying you are good looking.I personally am very pretty.However being brought up on a council estate is nothing to be proud of.I have just realised I have NEVER had a long conversation with a working class person but that has nothing to do with it .As for how attractive you are I think most women would fancy you.

[4getmenot]

sexyrussian stop being such a cow. Get a life not an imaginary one.

[loobie]

you go 4getmenot, i feel like punching her lights out right now!!

[alijangra]

sexyrussian you are ugly on the inside. And you sound a little desperate to convince us all of your beauty, I bet you are a gargoyle and nowhere near as pretty as many of us girls on here.