Weekend alone

[jaredwillias]

I am 23, recently single and its the first weekend in a while that my mates arent going out. I am unsure what to do with myself !!!

I madde a list yesterday of things i could do like join the gym, will it be really busy over the weekend though??? I also want to update my cv and start looking for new jobs... If you get my drift, I am trying to take my mind off women and exes, so am trying to focus on something different.

I would really like to go out this weekend to try and meet women, but dont want to look like a billy no mates!!! Thing is asell, maybe i need some ME time before i go chasing women straight away?

Everyone else seems to do so much with their weekend, i just want some suggestions on what i could do.

I was thinking of starting swimming or maybe boxing, but boxing would be ull of meatheads judging you wouldnt it ??? (i am pretty slim and not much of a fighter)


Any suggestions would be appreciated

[gessoo]

I gave you some genuine answers yesterday, but obviously you haven't taken any notice of what we all said because you keep repeating the same things. Have you been back to your questions from yesterday or even acknowledged the very helpful answers people to time to give you in order to help? I doesn't seem so.

Please stop posting the same things before you read your previous answers. It's getting pretty boring for us all.

[gessoo]

Sorry, if I seem rude. I genuinely understand your problems but you do seem to be indulging yourself in misery at the moment and that just won't help you.

[Miss Zippy]

I have to agree with gessoo, you are indulging in your misery way too much and you are coming across as very self-absorbed and bitter. Sorry to be harsh, but I�m not surprised you�re not pulling at the moment. You don�t sound like you�re much fun to be around at the moment and no matter how good looking someone is, no-one finds a sad-case attractive. Get out there, get involved in some sports and activities that will enable you to widen your circle of friends which will open up new social opportunities for you so you will never need to be home alone again. Make plans to visit some of your old Uni friends. This should keep you busy for a few weekends at least.

[booboopoo]

I agree with Wingnut, go away for the weekend, chill out and relax. I know it'll be weird on your own, but it gives you time to gather your thoughts and clear your head. Somewhere by the sea is always relaxing, you could try Beachy Head?!?

[Champagne]

ROFLMAO @ booboopoo!!!!

[Surreygirl30]

Just read your msg i know exactly how you feel hun. The problem i have is that all my mates have got married/babies and moved on and i am the only one left.

i was dating a guy, but it ended and now i have nothing and nobody to spend Saturdays with. Its not easy meeting people, especially guys and that.

Hope you find something fun to do. It�s meant to be sunny, maybe go to the park and sunbathe :-)

[annavc]

I don't understand why you think having a weekend on your own with nothing planned is such an awful scary thing. I love nothing more than having the occassional weekend to myself with absolutely nothing planned. It's good for the soul. You can spend all day lounging in bed watching films if you want, or do absolutely anything you want to do. Its not a bad thing so don't be so scared of a little alone time. Give it a chance, you might actually find you really enjoy it.

[jaredwillias]

whats so funny about beachy head? dont get it ??

[gessoo]

Ah so you are there jared. Look up Beachy Head on Google. It has an unfortunate reputation, so please, please only take the comment made with a pinch of salt!! We don't mean it!!!!!

We don't need to be thanked, but it's nice to know that people appreciate answers, so please keep in touch with your thoughts.

[gessoo]

Here you go

http://www.forensicmed.co.uk/beachy_head.htm

[jaredwillias]

are you guys sick??? is this some form of bullying ?

[gessoo]

Perhaps it was an unfortunate posting jared, but please don't be so serious. I didn't see it as being met with malice and it's certainly not bullying. Cheer up, please do. You must try and help yourself. Do take up the suggestions we have made and try and have a good weekend.

[gessoo]

'made with malice' not 'met'

[booboopoo]

No wonder you got dummped, you've got no sense of humour! Lighten up, have a laugh, it was said in jest! If i was sick/nasty, i'd of said spend the weekend looking round piano shops!

[CT]

I wasn't being sarky earlier. Stay in with some take away, chillout with some good music and have a laugh watching 'My Name is Earl' or some other comedy. Laughter is always the best medicine.

[jaredwillias]

hey, i am sorry for the people i snapped at and Im thankfull to all your replies.

Im just still a bit raw and hurting you know??

[Gevs1966]

Just another thought. You are obviously not over your ex and are clearly jealous of the fact that she is back with an old flame. I suspect the real reason you want to find a girl at the weekend is that you want her to find out that you have pulled someone else too and see if she gets jealous.