Honestly now..

[Rubyrose]

I want some honesty too from the ABers! :o)

Me and a mate have been going out alot recently and meeting loads of new people. I admit that we have been hanging about with loads of guys and I am starting to worry that we are going to appear a bit.. 'slapperish' to people! But.... we don't do anything with these guys! Other than kissing in clubs and stuff! I have kissed about 6-7 guys in the last 3 weeks.. just on nights out in town and stuff! All these guys are still in touch with me.. (give or take one or two that I am choosing to ignore).. We have actually formed friendships with these guys which is nice. They are all from different circles of friends aswell! Is this bad? I don't feel like a slapper.... yet! But if I keep things up.. at this rate then I think its gonna get bad!

[snapdarlich]

Are you on heat? ;D

I wouldn't say that it's a way of life that you should adopt for good possibly, but you've had a bit of a shit time of it lately rubester or is that rubestar! Have a bit of fun and let your hair down. You're only here once and as long as you're having fun and are safe and you know where to draw the line then play it by ear! Take care babes!

[Rubyrose]

Snappy... Love ya babes ;o)

I must admit I do feel like dog on heat but also when I am drunk I can't seem to say no... to the kissing that is! I can say No to everything else! But the kissing.. kind of catches me by suprise. Plus I miss it.. I miss having someone to kiss. :o)

But I couldn't do this for the rest of my days! Jeeeez no.. I'd run out of men and have to move towns. Lol.

I am having fun right now though.. not even coz of the men or the clubbing and the attention and flirting.. just coz I am spending time with my mates and we are having such a laugh. I got given a 'Little Black Book' in a cocktail set once for Christmas and I never needed it but the last few days me and my mate decided to stick loads of guys numbers in there coz we were putting to many in our phones! Lol.

We went for a drive coz it was a nice evening and we wanted to play a new CD in my mates car and we ended up picking up a guy on the high street and getting his number.. we didn't even get out of the car! We met him last weekend.. *ahem*... *blush*.. :o)

[helen79]

i dont think ur a slapper at all. its not like ur sleeping with them all. enjoy it while ur young. ive been in a relationship for six years since i was twenty, but if i wasn't id be the same. who gives a monkeys wot other people think. its ur life. live it!

[PatriciaH]

Well said snappy x (about letting your hair down) rubyrose ... as long as you" look after yourself" by being a "nice girl" dont worry and just enjoy yourself whilst youre young & free .... bet you will meet someone youl be crazy about before the years out!

[jon1968]

Just spin the numbers ya loon - you�ve kissed less than 10 blokes in 5 years ..errrr!
You�ve got some catching up to do �..have some bloody fun �just don�t get a reputation!! ;-)

[dot.hawkes]

And if the worst comes to the worst, Zeus has a ready made user name for you lol!!!!!!!! Oh just enjoy yourself, you sound tame to how I used to be back at your age, i lived on an RAF base, 'nuff said!

[country_boy]

Just have fun Rubes, life's too short! You're a good judge of character - enjoy xx

[robbo82]

I'll have to go out near you some time, Ruby...!

[jamwan55]

sounds like your having fun `s all

[stylinsam]

hey rubes how r u ?

anyway answer to your question ! you go girl your not doing anything wrong your having a good time . i say carry on chick!xx

[Rubyrose]

PHEW!!!!! I feel better now. :o)

Thanks everyone.

Jon - I know in the last 5yrs I have only kissed 8 guys (some a few months ago) but when I am single I catch up quick! Lol. I think my total is about 35... something like that.. but considering I was with my ex from 16-21.. I don't hang about! Lol.

[nobjob]

oh my gawddd what a total slag !!!!!!!

[Rubyrose]

Sorry Sam...

I'm fine chick. I have just completed my first week back at work and it was great fun. New job, New people and New salary! Lol. I had a great week and I am out tomorrow... and maybe tonight if I can get hold of my mate! Got to keep those 'kissing' numbers up..haha.

[Rubyrose]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Shut ya face Nobjob... ya already knew anyway ;o)