Affair at work?

[GirlyGirl20]

Just a quick question to you lot. How many have kissed, or gone further with someone at work but not had a relationship. Or maybe an affair?? I have kissed someone at my old place but thats it. what about you lot?

[andy-hughes]

No never have. I am married now, but even when I was single, I'd never date someone i worked with - too much potential for consequences.

[Cobra.]

Snogged a bird at work once...we were drunk (also snogged her best mate same night) she never spoke to me again...so dont tend to try office hanky panky

[Pippa68]

Nope..never fancied anyone I have ever worked with. Although I work with my husband now..and we started our relationship before we worked together. And I fancy the pants off him :o)

[Kate77]

hi

About 5 years ago at my last place I snogged about three people and slept with one and tumbled in bed with another.

Not at the same time though. Out of the three only one was a nice guy! nothing ever happend afterwards and I wouldnt do it again because boys are boys and probably discuss everything. Hopefully now I will be dealing with men.

It could be more oh just remembered another . . . just a kiss though.

Just be careful when it comes to men at work!
God I sound like a right tart. The truth is ive been single forever and am a good convent girl! x

[redcrx]

I work with my dad, mum and brother. Its doesnt bear thinking about

[Kate77]

oh i forgot to mention i was very very drunk on every occasion. If you dont want something to happen with someone at work do not drink alcohol! I am now a bit older and more responsible!

[lildiva]

one of my managers at my part time job is gorgeous and we have been out a few times on the quiet and had the odd snog no-one at work knows about it though. I only work there part time whilst at uni so im not fussed,however dont think i would do it if it was my career with all the potential consequences.

[4getmenot]

eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeughhhhhhhh redcrx. :-)

[enigma]

I fell for my supervisor in one particular job who was very flirty. We were on a work's night out and he made a pass at me but I stopped him in his tracks because although I fancied him , it would have been awkward at work if we went down that road. Probably just as well because I discovered a few days later that he was engaged to a manager of another dept and I only found out when she got me by the throat in the toilet at the Christmas party ! (Office parties eh ?)

I actually met my hubby at work. It was frowned upon for colleagues to date each other or be related so we sneaked about not really letting anyone know. However , one night at a work's do - even although we had gone to great lengths to arrive separately - when we got up to dance together , everyone started whistling and cheering because we had finally come out as being together. Everyone said that they knew anyway because of the way we looked at each other. He got transferred to another department a week later !

Hubby and I are still together eleven and a half years later but I must admit , if I was still single , I would give office romances a wide berth. More hassle than they are worth.

[GirlyGirl20]

i wouldnt have one in the office i am in. More to the point i have a boyfriend but if i was single. i still wouldnt, wouldnt want to risk my career.

[Supernick]

I'm going to sound like such a sl*g now, which I'm really not! At my last company I had been at various stages of intimacy with 6 girls, ranging from kissing to the upper end of the scale. That sounds like a lot now come to think of it. Perhaps I was wise to get out of there when I did.

[GirlyGirl20]

Oh supernick your name should be superstud! What about this new place you are, any totty for you to get your mits into! By the sound of it, you might of done already *giggles*

[Supernick]

No, not at the new place. I'm in a much smaller company now, and it would be a real disaster. I'm not in the slightest bit some kind of superstud, they just happened!!

[GirlyGirl20]

bet you are! just in denial at the moment!

[claireyfairy]

hmmm, never at work but at the last place I worked, I had a bit of a kiss and a fumble with 5 of the other staff members! actually 3 of them were on one night....see staff parties are never a good thing!!!!!

[China Doll]

May have had a brief liaison with someone here but it taught me a big lesson about p1$$ing on your own doorstep! Fortunately I work in a very big place and we've managed to stay friends the times we have gone out with the same group.

[Supernick]

Honestly GirlyGirl I'm not. I only really persued 1 of them, and the rest just seemed to happen. Not that I was pushing them away...I'm a sweet an innocent young man, whom parents love.

[atolhurst]

Been with my office fling for over two years now...and still going strong (I hope!!)

[hammerman]

I had a fling and eventually ended up marrying a girl i worked with. Lasted for 7 years before divorce.

[caz21]

Must admit i had one nighters with two guys at my last place of work! One left a week later! the other took over the first ones job!

The first one was a God though, so i owed it to females everywhere to do it! the second was drunk after an xmas party and was not meant to happen! ;o)