Oh dear missy, it sounds more like he wants to be part of thegang and can't understand why he's not allowed in. At 14 whether he's gay or not, he's going through a lot of emotional changes, as are you, and whether you like it or not, when you get to 24 you'll look back on this and say 'Did I really react like that?' If he seems to be attention seeking them ask why? Has he got something to say and no one is listening? How would you treat one of your girl friends if they started acting this way? Do the same, treat him the same as boy or girl gay or not, a friend is a friend and there'll always be arguemtns and tantrums but we all get over it. Good luck with your future year with him ad your education, and for what it's worth, I wouldn't want to be 14 again.