Drugs

[raysparx1]

My head is spinning, A nephew of mine has started taking drugs,to hide from the fact he was abused by some piece of scum,he won't talk about it to anybody,my Dilema is this bloke is out of prison and walking free after about 1 year inside, my nephew is a prisoner, my Sister is really hurting, which hurts me, what do I do ? I feel very angry,I am on the verge of hurting this bloke really bad, do I do it, ? or hope something happens to him later ? or get someone else to do it ? ( that is not a problem) what would you do ? serious answers only please, I can't get it out of my head, thanks,

[raysparx1]

cheers pickle, they seem to think i'm on some sort of ego trip, my family are my life,I don't know what to do for the best then this idiot,yes I think it is one person who has serious problems,but I haven't got the time or patience with this cretin, Ray

[raysparx1]

tell me where this other site is crete i want to know,come on big mouth,where is it ? I only ever come on here as me,full stop, I have never put a question on another site now go screw yourself !!!

[kipchik]

How many more names have you got,,apart from whiffey/crete? ? ? ?Oh,isnt sexyrussian yours too?

[luckyeight]

Totally agree with IAP.. Why would you want to have a go at someone just wanting some honest advice about a serious problem?whiffey and crete do you know how self righteous and ignorant you both sound? You should both be ashamed and get off the thread. Take it easy raysparx. Ignore the negative sh!t.

[lady_p_gold]

The whole point of this site is that you can post anonymously and get a genuine across the board lot of answers from people from all ages, walks of life and with lots of experience of the world - some more than other it seems. Then you can draw from it as you wish - I would suggest ignoring the unhelpful remarks and making the most of the good, just like with a toddler ignoring the bad behaviour and praising the good. There will always be the 'strange' answers but hopefully most of them are helpful and sympathetic. Unfortunately some are just pathetic ! Hope you manage to sort out this problem and get some counselling for him.

[Captain Swab]

Whiffey is a c**t

[Captain Swab]

Ray, don't listen to all the liberal hippy replies saying that it won't help if you retaliate, it won't feel better if you get him beaten, thats a load of rubbish. Some people say that because they haven't got the balls to do it. If i were you i would open the evil ******* up and stamp his face off. Take care matey.

[-Zorro-]

Ray...do you want to borrow my sword to chop his head off.

[-Zorro-]

and whilst you have it you can do the same to whiffey/crete

[unruliejulie]

Ray, ignore all this crap mate, you have helped so many people on here in you time, now you have had some help of your own and no-one deserves it more!

These poeple who are being very negative towards you ,Whiffey and crete, never seem to actually offer any help themselves on any questions! Am i missing something ?? I thought this was answerbank, body and Soul!!!! Theres enough moaning about proper questions, then when we get one, it still gets slagged off by certain members!!!!
Whiffey, all you ever do is talk a load of Bull so the fact you come onto this (in my opinion, very serious) thread and critisize Ray. is outrageous. And by the way, unlike your good self, Ray doesnt NEED to gauge how much he is liked on AB. THATS obvious already!
Jealousy is a nasty trait!!!

Ray, i hope things are a little clearer for you after all the advice you have been given. Talk to pickle, if anyone can help you, he will!!!
Take care XX

[raysparx1]

Hi julie,

I have been in touch with pickle, he is a good bloke, I would like to keep in touch with you,if you want to,that is, e-mail pickle and I will ask him to give you my e-mail, I am not putting it on here or if you are in touch with electric,whiskey or sam,they have it, I am not coming back though,these cretins are sick, what is the point ? most on here are great but the site is becoming a slagging off forum,I should have stayed away before, take care julie,your one of the best, Ray xx

[unruliejulie]

i will do just that ray, no probs. i totally understand. i will ask Whisky for your e-mail, i need to stay in touch with you, X X X

[China Doll]

Hey Ray,

I've only just picked this up.... don't leave, that's silly. You're a bigger person than that. You've been a sweetie to me in the past a couple of times and I'm sure there's more than me that'll say that. Ignore the comments that have upset you... just think of the bad comments as background noise, that's all I ever do. As you say yourself, you don't need to worry about what these people think of you. Ignore it.

I'm truely sorry you're going through all of this. I wouldn't do anything myself as the scum isn't worth doing time for if you're caught but only you can make that decision. I wish you luck whatever you do and don't leave on account of scum. I know there are people here who'd miss you xx

[-Zorro-]

Sorry to see you go Ray.

I have said my piece to the 2 cretins over the weekend.

They are clearly the same person.

Its a shame the wrong person is leaving the site.

[steviep165]

might i also add my sincere best wishes raymondo my good man.
it will be a shame to see you go. you will be sorely missed.
all the best ray, keep it tight.

[whiffey]

email the tecchies Zorro - get them to check.

Let us all know what they conclude.

[joby1]

take care ray, as I keep saying to cobra/ zeus, don't let them get to you, ignore the asses!! xxx

[China Doll]

Whiffey... lets face it, much as I don't really care what you say or do, I don't think Ray really wants you on his thread any more so why not just do the decent thing and leave it alone. At least he might like to hear from Zorro.

I very rarely speak out as just find it all too silly for words sometimes but I do think it's pointless carrying on this vendetta about who's who and who isn't on this thread. It's not going to make Ray feel any better if he does read it.

Carry on in a different thread by all means but I think it might be best if Ray just recieves supportive messages now... and as my gran said if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all.

[whiffey]

Oh all right then China Doll :)

Ray will be back, I am sure, and I hope so.