How can I say goodbye to her?

[Willow22]

About 4 years ago my Grandmother died :'( I am a teen. However I never got to speak to her before she died...nor attend her funeral. She was cremated. I still find it difficult to deal with and feel like I need to say goodbye properly.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can say goodbye to her??
please can you reply
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[nicnic]

Do you know where her ashes were scattered? You could go and visit there if you so wished. Another way would be to write her a letter with how you feel about her and put it somewhere that means a lot to both of you. Or you could plant a tree somewhere to remind you of her and every time you water it, tend it, you'll think of her. Not great ideas but it israther early!

[janetsflower]

If it were me i would go to the local spiritulist church and try to connect with her there. Or visit a medium and speak to her thru them or go to your own church and sppeak with the vicar but these are all very much dependant upon your own beliefs. Failing that visit places that were special to her/you both, or where her ashes were scattered presuming they were

[sunflower71]

light a candle and have a little moment with yourself remembering her.
Everytime you think of her light the candle and go to your special place in your mind and you will be together.

[wonderwoman1]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion298845.html

[Solarjunkie]

Have a look at this - sadly too often young people are excluded from funerals and denied their chance to come to terms with their loss. Hope this helps.

http://www.winstonswish.org.uk/foryoungpeople/