Beinding Over

[GMH]

This is for females only: if a man you see bends over in front of you and you can see his back side, do you get sexually aroused and feel funny inside? I have noticed from time to time you see women on television respond like this when it happens. I don't know from a male perspective.

Recently for example I was shopping in a shop where there was just a female assistant at the till. Directly in front of her was a shelf of items and what I wanted was on the bottom shelf, so what I did was bend over in front of her to get the item. When I paid for the item the assistant had shown no signs of being sexually aroused and acted as if nothing had happened. Are females better at hiding or controlling their sexual responses than men are? I am almost certain she was distracted from what she was doing and probably stared at my back side for a moment and got aroused.

For example if a man was the assistant and the customer was a woman in a short skirt and low cut blouse I doubt that he could hide his sexual response in the same way as females would with a male.

As a single man it would be interesting to know if I would be sexy to a woman if I happened to do that, so I would know what the key things that women are attracted to men for.

[auzzie]

A builders bum YUK!!!

[yolande]

Erm, no. I think any man who is trying to be attractive and flaunting his bum near me would be far more likely to come across as freaky than turn me on. Don't think about it so much, women are much more turned on by personality and subtle attributes such as eyes, voice and height than men.

[Dassie]

I think you'd have more luck with a man watching you than a woman !

[fee-is-me]

Ditto what yolande said.

Freaky, NOT a turn-on. (Done in an obvious way.)

Eyes, voice, height = YES!

[Calaid]

I feel funny inside when this happens and not in a nice way! Seeing a man's hairy bum sticking out of his trousers just does not do it for me. I'm sure the majority of women agree! Keep it covered but wear a pair of jeans that give your butt a good shape. That should get you more admiring glances!

[noxlumos]

Yeah, it's a well known fact with us Lotharios that the surest fire way of making a BIG impression on a female you've got in your sights, is to make sure your trousers are practically at half mast then with a seductive wiggle and an all important "hey baby come and see what I've got" look over your shoulder bend over as far as you can so that your manly arsecrack is hers to survey and enjoy. Wave it around a bit so she can't help but notice and I guarantee she'll never forget you!!!
Whatever planet are you from????

[muppeteer]

sorry, but its not sexy- especially if said man has no clothes on! (eew- nasty thought!)
reason is men can envisage performing a certain act when they see a lady bend over- as this act is not something a female would or could do (unless its a lady boy!), its not a turn on.
one of the best tips i could give for pleasing the girls is to have impeccable personal hygene at all times. not turn on as such, but at least it wont be turn off as there is nothing worse!

[chazza]

No not at all!

[PinkFizz]

No - it does nothing for me whatsoever!

[B00]

Yeah it does make me feel funny inside- think it's nausea!

[emmacherise2]

hahaha... loving the answers so far! specially yolande! haha!
I have to agree.. i'm more likely to get that "funny feeling" if he fashes me a nice smile, or touches my arm lightly as he's passing!!! .. this is all providing i fancy him first!!!

[jedimistress]

Euch! Mens bent over bottoms? All they do is fart out of them and scratch them.

[hammerman]

I certainly don't get "sexually aroused" at looking at a woman bending over in a shop.

But i do think "Mmmmm very nice" and then that's it. I certainly don't get a boner over it.

You need to find yourself a woman m8.....or go to the local telephone box and pick up a few "business cards"

[yolande]

This is my favourite question posted for a long, long time.

[suzi-q]

Perhaps you need to get out more?

I think Jedi-mistress has it right !!!

Did you have some sexy pants peeping out of the top of your trousers? Or did you go for the "slot to park the cycle" look?

[Eve]

Another no from me afraid!!!

A sexy smile and eye contact is much better or that little "accidental" touch which makes you tingle. Especially the bowed head looking up at you thing.

It's just something about someone which turns me on. Nothing I can really put my finger on really.

There's a guy who used to be on my bus sometimes, he's got such a sweet face, very soulful eyes, lovely smile and and he's a nurse which makes me go all warm and fuzzy inside.

There's a guy I had a thing with who has the most gorgeous pert bum and gorgeous muscles in this arms, could watch him running up and down the corridor with his boxes all day long!!

At the same time he has such a sweet face and wears these really cute glasses sometimes and facinates me, a man with hidden depths which are very hard to get too! I love the way he adores his kids too (he was divorced well before we had a thing) and the way he talks about them.

2 very different guys but they just have that special something :)

[sense4all]

I would assume from behavior like that you had brewed a "ripper" and were about to let me have "both barrels". I would think you were completely devoid of social skills. Not very arrousing at all !!! Sorry chuck.

[Katie~77]

Hi GMH. The bending over thing does nothing for me either.x

[smurfchops]

GMH for goodness sake pull up your trousers and get a life. There are more important things for shop assistants to worry about than where she can park her bike.

[Calaid]

pmsl @ smurfchops!!! Oh this has really cheered me up on a miserable Monday :0)