If there was a guy who

[SKA]

was a bit of a criminal and he was crazy about you and told you, you were the best thing to ever happen to him what would you do??

[ICEMANSAV]

as a bloke shop him in pronto!

But on a serious note, stay well clear!

[melons]

Do you like him?? If you dont just say that you like him as a friend but nothing more and if you do like him back then maybe give him a chance? We all make mistakes!

[crete]

what does a bit of a criminal mean ?

[melons]

i think it means that he has done something bad! maybe been in jail????

[SKA]

erm he used to be a drug dealer

[4getmenot]

if he used to be then surely thats past. as long as you know he's stopped now then go for it if you like him

[crete]

hi melons, id just like more info , re what a bit of a criminal means, yes it could be someone who has been in prison, or maybe just a juvenile offender, in the past,

[SKA]

well i think he's daft enough to go back to it

[888sally888]

Stay away - sounds like trouble - lots of nice non-ex drug dealers out there!

[badgerchops]

The word here is 'used' to be a dealer. i.e. not now. If you like him, his past is his past. Base it on him now.

The best thing that ever happened to him may be that it shows him he wants more than his past. If you like him then just go with it.

[bednobs]

i would ask him to leave me alone because i'm married

[badgerchops]

if you are posting about his past and him being daft enough etc to do it again then you dont like him enough. leave him alone.

[redcrx]

well if you think hes daft enough to try it again then get away from him now.

[4getmenot]

Yep surely people change, you cant judge someone on their past. I mean I used to be a nun :-)

[crete]

sorry to disagree, quite honestly why would you want to get involved with a previous drug dealer ? and before you all jump on the bandwagon yes people can change i agree, but maybe drug dealing even in his past is not the best choice of boyfriends,

[4getmenot]

oh sorry hadnt seen that, dont bother then if you think he'll do it again.

[crete]

its true 4get was in the sound of music. honest !

[SKA]

ok now dont shout at me
but he said its up to me, he said without me there�s no point and he'll go back to it. I KNOW ITS EMOTIONAL BALCKMAIL the guy did do psychology in uni

[4getmenot]

tell him where to stick it, just for saying that, what a twonk

[4getmenot]

The hills are aliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiive......