Someone out there for you

[Trinny]

Do people really believe there is someone out there for you? or is it just something smug marrieds tell us singletons to keep us happy??

[ELVIS68]

No it`s true...keep looking

[zigzag]

elvis iright

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6n8sCK2PKlQ

[Trinny]

Elvis, its a nice thought. But think its unlikely

[ELVIS68]

Oh, what makes you think that then?

[Trinny]

Elvis, I just do.

[ELVIS68]

But why?

[Trinny]

Elvis, i just cant envisage myself meeting anyone. Bit of a lame reply. Sorry. But thats how I see it I guess.

[Redbel]

I do believe there is someone out there for us all.......I won't bore you with details Trinny but some years ago I had an awful time and thought......I'm never gonna find anyone like that person.......18months later and I wasn't even looking for anyone I met someone through my job.....I can honestly say he is the best thing that ever happened to me......but what I would say....is don't look......you will meet that person when you are least expecting to. x

[ELVIS68]

Good point Bez...see Trinny, there is someone out there

[peppy]

John McRirrick. Point proved I think xxxx

[Trinny]

Hi Redbel, am sure you wouldnt be boring me if you told me all. I am not "looking" to meet anyone to be honest. I am just sort of hoping that I will just meet someone nice one day. But cant see it happening. Couldnt explain why to Elvis either!

Nice to read your happy story though x

[Trinny]

Peppy... the hideous racing man do you mean? eeeek
But know what you mean.

[ELVIS68]

Please explain..I`d like to know why

[Trinny]

Elvis, well I am not some hideous ugly monster. Just wanted to make that clear lol....I am actually quite nice. Have been badly rejected from a previous relationship. Maybe that has dented my self esteem. I dont know. Sorry for my ramblings.

[ELVIS68]

Ah.. now your talking, so because you`ve been rejected you think you`re on the scrapheap, it`s not like that

[unruliejulie]

of course they'll be someone out there for you Trinny, you just havent found him yet!

[ELVIS68]

WTF did you spring from lol

[Trinny]

Elvis, I dont know if its all that. But yes, to be rejected by some (can say this now) over weight, egotistical man (not that good looking now I think about it) maybe has something to do with it. But I still cant see me meeting anyone. I am not looking now btw. Though it reads like I am. But I am 45 so thats a factor too, to be honest.

[Redbel]

Trinny, I'm sure you are a beautiful person....and yes rejection is not nice and it can affect your confidence.....but not everyone is like that person who rejected you....and you are not rambling x

[Trinny]

thanks julie x