I'm SOOOOOO excited...

[Rubyrose]

and I just can't hide it!
I'm about to lose control and I think I like it! Whoooooo

Sorry... I had to do that in here, otherwise I will faint due to excitment!

I am going on lunch with the guy I fancy! :oD

[girlygirl2]

I got called a HO!!!! Although, that made me laugh more than anything!!!!

Joe - DONT YOU DARE RESIGN!!!! I'll be after you quicker than you can say "Roar!"

x

[Rubyrose]

Oh and 4get.... He DOES know I like him! Everyone knows and I know some people in here have told him and have had conversations with him about it but they all tell me he stays very mute on the subject! But they all say he seems shy but I say far from it! He loves the banter! Lol

He often comes back from lunch and has bought me something... like a bag of crisps or a drink I like! I do the same though! Just mates and I have a healthy crush to keep me occupied!

[4getmenot]

Can I ask was this question yesterday about this situation

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion413802.html

[Champagne]

But Octavius, that's just because we enjoy inflicting pain on you men. I carry a hedge trimmer around with me at all times.

And yes, I can confirm that Joshie IS female. Because i've seen him dress up in womens' clothing.

[Joe_the_Lion]

Champers, if you enjoy watching men suffer, may I suggest the movie "Audition" is right up your alley.

[cazzz1975]

I think you will find that the vast majority of one time cheaters do go on to re offend, A guy/girl worth their salt will end their relationship before embarking on another.

Would anyone be happy if their husband or wife was flirting with someone else, maybe yes but these things do progress, Im sure he probably does not tell his wife about the flirting.

[B00]

I'm willing to bet my last fiver that he doesn't tell his wife Cazzz, otherwise Rosie would start having lunch with a guy who's suddenly gone falsetto.

[4getmenot]

I can say there's a bloke I flirt with in pub who is hot, but I would never say I fancy him. I'm a flirt he's a flirt, but I'm very good mates with his wife and I have a bloke. I wouldnt ever go have lunch with him.

[cazzz1975]

yep me too, It also suggests that it is an activity that is not seen as normal or healthy despite how played down its been.

He obviously knows that he is crossing a boundary and would freak if his wife were to find out....

[4getmenot]

You seem like such a nice girl rubyrose dont you think you're wasting that on him. When you say you know nothing will happen. Someone deserves you out there :-)

[Rubyrose]

4get - No that was NOTHING to do with him... that was down to a conversation I had with a friend about people taking advice and stuff! Not him at all!

I don't reckon he has told his wife either.. and I hope he hasnt as that means it means something more... or at least he knows it's not 'right'! Which would imply to him that it's more than friendship! Lol

I don't care... I go with the flow.. nothing is forever.. and he has been with her forever!! Lol...

But most of the guys in this office are in relationships but get on well with the girls and go to lunch with them! Are they all in the wrong? Is it true that men and women can't be friends or is it just those who judge that put that burden on the friendship?

[4getmenot]

Ok am just asking, less of the !!!!!!!!! I get scared lol

[Rubyrose]

4get - When I find the man who deserves me, I will take him up on his offer but till then I intend to have some fun - that does not mean wrecking a relationship but it means flirty and being flirted with and building my confidence and feeling sexy! This is the fun stage.. anything more and the fun becomes to intense!

[jump82]

I think when it comes to married/attached men, you need to keep your distance. Yes, they may be in a strong committed relationship blah blah blah but I've seen/known many married men flirting with young, single women ... personally, it makes me sick. The temptation is there, and it can only take a moment to change inncent flirting into something more. If loose women throw themselves at the married men, they are usually met with very little resistance ... IMO.

As for flirting, there are boudaries, can you not find a single/unmarried/untaken man to flirt with out of the millions out there?

[cazzz1975]

ruby however you want to dress it up as friendship only, you fancy the pants off him and unlike your co workers that makes the difference between you and him going to lunch and your other collegues.

I think if you keep pluggin away I am sure he will ask you on a date eventually (all the signs are there that he likes you too) spare a thought for his wife though, it isnt a nice thought that he would do that to her.

In time you will find it difficult to trust his as he has the ability to be deceptive, I dont want to rain on your happy thoughts but why not try looking for a single hot guy, there are a lot about!!!!

[4getmenot]

But as you said you aren�t just friend, you fancy him like mad and hope he knows its more than friends

[Octavius]

Jump, as a married man who loves his wife dearly, I can confirm that not all men would dabble on the side with the first slapper that came along - even if it was offered on a plate. Some men don�t like silly young girls throwing themselves at them and those that do, well then they deserve each other.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i understand where Ruby is coming from.
Its like a woman sat there in her house, and a bar of chocolate is on the table infront of her. She sees it everytime she blinks. The chocolate is someone elses, and if she was to take some, nobody would notice.

Now Ruby, if you have the will power to be able not to touch that chocolate then i think you are totally safe around any man...

[jump82]

Octavious, you have to think though, would your wife- standing next to you- like it it some single woman started flirting with you? Would you like it if it happened to your wife?

However strong relationships may be, its time other people started respecting them instead of doing things for their own fun, coz life's just too short and all that

[Octavius]

Jump, I have already covered the physical retribution that would be levied against my particulars, but that is mild to the pain and humiliation Mrs O would inflict on anyone who interferes with our relationship. This might be why Mr Married flirt hasn�t told his wife, she might make mincemeat out of his wotsits and commit a heinous but understandable crime against the wannabe-child-mistress.