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How trusting are you when you are in a relationship?
I find it really hard to believe that over 50% of the people on here trust their partners 100%.
Ha ha, its the first time i have laughed today...
I find it really hard to believe that over 50% of the people on here trust their partners 100%.
Ha ha, its the first time i have laughed today...
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Hmmm, i hear what your saying Goodsoulette, but i dont believe in coincidence and if things are going to happen they will.
I believe that you can control your actions and control yourself not to do certain things. If people know of the consequences of there actions, then i think it is a big deterrent from doing something...
I believe that you can control your actions and control yourself not to do certain things. If people know of the consequences of there actions, then i think it is a big deterrent from doing something...
I dont think that you can fully trust someone 100% even when your head over heels in love! there is always a part of you that either does or wants to hold back!
I think its even harder if you have been let down in the past as well because as much as you try to block that experiance out it must still pop into your mind!
I think its even harder if you have been let down in the past as well because as much as you try to block that experiance out it must still pop into your mind!
Yeah, I see what you are saying BEn but if my (imaginary) boyfriend was to go and have sex with someone else what the hell could I do about it!
In fact my ex shagged someone whilst I was away for a weekend and it has since manifested that he probably had my cousin too, i didnt particularly trust him but then again did I really care? NO!
In fact my ex shagged someone whilst I was away for a weekend and it has since manifested that he probably had my cousin too, i didnt particularly trust him but then again did I really care? NO!
Hmmm, but surely the reason he did those things was partly because he knew he could get away with it.
He may have known you trusted him 100% and knew he could get away with things.
Maybe its the fact that you didnt care in your relationship with him and thats why he did those things to you.
Which is exactly what my point was. You cant trust your partner 100%...
He may have known you trusted him 100% and knew he could get away with things.
Maybe its the fact that you didnt care in your relationship with him and thats why he did those things to you.
Which is exactly what my point was. You cant trust your partner 100%...
I don't trust anyone 100%, not just boyfriends.
There's always a very small part of me with a defence mechanism ready to expect the worst. I have had my trust thrown back in my face in the past, but I also don't like to tarnish others with the same brush. So what I'm saying is I'll always give someone the benefit of the doubt in the hope that they won't let me down. After all, that's the civil thing to do!
And also, I would rather be able to open my heart and love fully, than to be sceptical about it and not feel true love at all.
There's always a very small part of me with a defence mechanism ready to expect the worst. I have had my trust thrown back in my face in the past, but I also don't like to tarnish others with the same brush. So what I'm saying is I'll always give someone the benefit of the doubt in the hope that they won't let me down. After all, that's the civil thing to do!
And also, I would rather be able to open my heart and love fully, than to be sceptical about it and not feel true love at all.
Well i dont know..... If you say from the bginning that you wont tolerate that and if he does cheat your finished then maybe a man/women who really cares about their partner wouldnt do it. I suppose it very much depends how into each other you are!
There must be couples who wouldnt dream and have never cheated on their partner. So they must have 100% trust!
There must be couples who wouldnt dream and have never cheated on their partner. So they must have 100% trust!
I havent and hopefully never will cheat on any partner, but at the same time i wouldnt trust anyone 100%.
I still think you can have love for that person without having 100% trust.
I think everyone would love to be able to trust 100% but i think deep down nobody ever does, as the way society is nowadays...
I still think you can have love for that person without having 100% trust.
I think everyone would love to be able to trust 100% but i think deep down nobody ever does, as the way society is nowadays...
