its a bit embarrassing but does anyone else get extremely sore?? I dont know why but recently its very painful all over (not particualy during intercourse...) We use KY etc but just say we have sex on a friday on the sunday i am still sore! He is not rough or anythingso i just dont understand it...think sometimes this is why my sex drive dwindles sometimes!!!
Yes I do know what you mean nannon, I used to have massive problems, erm, "allowing access"...I still do sometimes now, I just dry up, which is uncomfortable, nd also gives my partner a huge complex! Even though it really isn't him! I am not sure what can be done about it though. Have you seen a doctor? They might put your mind at ease, as you could have a bit of an infection, or something else medical.
I do sometimes but not most of the time I don't. Sometimes though I also get a pain in what feels like my stomack but is actually probably lower down, it's a really weird dull pain and I don't know what cause it. It doesn't really bother me though as it's quite rare, don't even really know why I mentioned it!
yeah i should go to docs i guess - its not that i get dry at all - it just feels like he's been going at it like a drill bless him and he really hasnt - its like friction burns on the 'surface' rather than inside but as i say - i used KY and am not dry so just dont get it!
well i am allergic to latex so we don't use condoms...and we recently swapped to another gel...Play i think it is...Do you think maybe they have the same ingredients as each other? Although it can happen when we dont use it as well...hmmm....maybe i'm just allergic to my bloke!!! hehe!!!
You should definitly visit a Doc. I had a similar problem about 2 years ago, to the extent that I was on hols in Italy and I had to wear skirts with no knickers as my bits were on fire after sex with my partner
Don't want to alarm you, but I found out I had Chlymidia, so it is absolutely vital you get checked out. Best to be on the safe side!
oh my god - hope thats not it!! ****** - will def get it checked out thanks.
fine,thanks - your sayint i could get a medical diagnosis on google??!! Well i never!!