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well, have just driven home from my new fellas house, this has happened twice now, re the texting messages thingy, the other weekend he went off in a moody at me for texting friends late at night, which agreed was rude of me, meanwhile he insists on telling me about every text message he gets, and whom its from (especially a girl he knows), I dont need or want to be told everytime, and dont care, but tonight my phone was on silent so when i got a text it buzzed in my back jeans pocket, he went off on one again accusing me of hiding something as my phone was on silent. I showed him the text as it was from a woman friend of mine, but I could not win, he is obviously insecure, his last wife had an affair. He doesnt trust anyone. Least of all me. I cant win here, so I just left and got in my car and come home. I hate men ! Why are they such *****??