Oh nannon love, I feel for you.
It's a horrible situation to be in. My partner and I split before Christmas; after a period of unhappiness from both parties, I found he had been texting someone else :( I hurt like nothing else, and just ran on autopilot, crying when no-one was there. I moved out, and had an awful few months. We were on and off, and it was horrible. We are back together now, and we are working SO hard to make it right. Give him thinking time, he will appreciate it. He has said he loves you, let him think it all over, and then tell him how hard you are willing to work to sort things out (speaking to doc like you said in your first post etc.)
On the other side of the coin, relationships shouldn't be ALL about work-consider this too. If he just isn't willing to appreciate your efforts, accept that and try to move on hun (easier said than done).
All my good wishes for today, and if you need to pull a sickie and go home, do! Just don't tell them I told you to ;)
Not sure if you are a disney fan, but I love this:
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=6AOEHW2SfWA and I am not even a cat person!
and:
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=bdDGUUGnJJU which is Pixar.
johnlambert, perhaps small and mid-cap investments are the solution to ALL our problems?! ;)