I feel really good...

[Rubyrose]

I bumped into my ex at Sainsburys a few hours ago... and I saw his girlfriend and their new little baby who is a cutie and only 2 weeks old. I was actually happy for them both. Was nice to see. I feel like I have grown. :o)

A year and a half ago I would have just died right there near checkout 12! But now... It was nice to see... because it reminds me that I have stuff to look forward too. :o)

Just thought I'd share that.

Rrx

[dot.hawkes]

did you get your nectar points?

[Rubyrose]

I did indeed.... and I went to use my points but the kid was too fast and he said 'oh sorry, I have already opened the till'!! Pffft.... I don't know... You just can't get the staff anymore.

[legend760]

no jealousy??


that would be normal surely?

even a little?

[Rubyrose]

Not at all... Which didn't really surprise me... For jealousy I'd have to want him.. and I don't. I was happy for him. He deserves to be happy.

[legend760]

well done.


unusual reaction id say.

but if youre cool with it then thats maybe a good sign then.

[Rubyrose]

Why shouldn't I be cool with it? Was weird when I found out months ago that they were having a baby but never because I was jealous because that's not where I wanted to be. But when I saw them.. it was kind of nice.

I think when we broke up I was dreading their milestones.. Like the day they got engaged, or announced a baby etc... but now I have lived through them... they were never as bad as I thought they'd be.

[bowiefreak]

thats a good reaction you have moved on have a more mature out look on life things can only get better xx

[Rubyrose]

Things have got better and better since the say we broke up... I never could see the day I'd feel this way though!

[bowiefreak]

time is a great healer yeh

[Rubyrose]

And that old clich� of a line... has never been truer.

[Marvelman]

Fantastic Rubyrose, i dont think there are many women who would have such kind thoughts about their ex as you, wish i could meet a woman like you.

[Goodsoulette]

Thats sweet ruby. I bumped into one of my exs ion Boots the other dy and Im sure we both thought "look how fat you've got" lol
As I walked away I realised he was 9 years older than me and looking PHIT for it too!!! Despite the extra stone or two he had gained and his hair was just as pretty as it was in 1999.

[Rubyrose]

Oh trust me Marvelman, I haven't always felt like this and no matter how much I am over him.. He will always be the loser that let me go! Lol.

But I just feel like I have shown personal growth... I didn't care as much as I thought I would if I saw him! And I realised I was actually slightly chuffed for him. He will make a great dad.