sad/upset :[

[Nat13]

i went away with my boyfriend over the weekend and he left me with his phone. i couldn't help but look as this NEVER happens. (i posted a topic saying he always takes his phones with him everywhere) anyways, he went into the petrol station and i looked, i went into his sent messages and there was one saying "i thought of you and missed you so decided to text you." does this mean anything? i can't help but feel upset. he never mentions any girls he knows and this was the first i'd ever heard of her. it put a real dampen to our holiday.

[cazzz1975]

phone the girl!!, you could pretend to be someone else looking for him



I would do it definatly, at least it gets things out in the open

[kp nonuts]

Just a little funny one here to cheer you up a bit nat.

I once sent a text to the girl that I was going out with saying that I loved her so much. And the next morning when I got into work my guvner said to me "so you love me so much do you".

Whoops.........

[Scarlett]

Nat. Can I recommend you make some female friends? They would be able to listen to your woes such as this one, and give you great advice from the female perspective. I think you are really missing out by only having male friends.

[leighkaty]

you know what if i read that message on my boyfriends phone i wouldnt even give him the benefit of the doubt, he'd be out the door end of, that is not an innocent message if its to another girl - sorry, and so what if nat13 txts blokes the fact is she doesnt hide it from her boyfriend unlike her boyfriend, and also if he's put it on his phone to get you jelous and left it there on purpose would he really risk your relationship for a stupid prank to get you jelous i dont think so

[someonesgirl]

it sounds dodgy to me! I would tell him what you found and say you only looked cos you were suspicious of him and it turns out that its a good job you did cos you were right to be!