when asking ?

[legend758duo]

when asking for a divorce.
how do you tell your partner its over ?


and if you live in sin , do you need to tell them or is it ok to just up and leave saying nothing ?
after all theres no spoken agreement or commitment so does there need to be a spoken goodbye?
or will you" just know that " too ?

[sense4all]

If I get there I may well tie the note around a brick and leave it on the drivers seat of his car. It's never OK to pack up and say nothing. If you haven't got a vibe that summat's up - probably wasn't right anyway!

[legend758duo]

but if it was you say .
fed up
would you talk about it?
or expect him to know?

are you married /living together 7going out / open relationship /catalogue bride ?


last ones a joke btw lol

[CheekyChops]

If i were the one being left, I would hope that my other half would talk to me about it and not just do a disappearing act! I would show them the same courtesy.

[Pippa68]

My first husband let me know by leaving his wedding ring in the empty drawer he had just cleared out..before beggaring off with some floozie.

[legend758duo]

tut tut pi


you get over it ok ?

[johnlambert]

I just told her I was sha66ing her sister, then I legged it ASAP lol

[legend758duo]

rambo wot a gent eh ??

[B00]

John!! That's appalling, are you not ashamed of that?

[johnlambert]

No!!!!! I only said it to break the ice

























I was accually sh4gging her best mate

[legend758duo]

omg the club are getting into a rumpus now

[B00]

never miss an opportunity for a dig do you legend?

[legend758duo]

not at all

just surprised that genleman john aka rambo is a philaderer shameful


no wonder hes so smooth with the ladies


hes a charmer



cant teach an old dog new tricks eh ?

[sense4all]

If it was me I could probably not be talked around. Not because I am stubborn etc, but because it takes a lot to upset me in the first place, so a trial reconciliation would be futile. No talking about from practicalities with kids.
I would say that it was time for me to go, that I was sorry. I may have pre packed, to lessen the blow. I have been married to Mr Sense for twenty odd years, I try not to bottle things up, so I would expect that the 'vibe' would not have passed him by.

[legend758duo]

would you sit down and tell him?

or sneak offf

[johnlambert]

genleman? moi? with MY reputation?
I don't think so,
I once sh4t in a girls handbag to let her know it was over, I always thought the subtle approach was best

[johnlambert]

My mate once ate his g/f pet rabbit as a way of letting her down gently

Another time I told some tart that due to a wound recieved in Northern Ireland, my right hand had a mind of it's own, twenty minutes later I proceeded to strangle myself

[legend758duo]

well BOO better keep ur handbag shut


cant ever say ive thought so badly of a woman to even think of doing that.

seems im the antichrist

but i still respect them too much for that nonsense


rambo youre disgusting

[Pippa68]

Eventually I got over it.

Was very painful at the time, and of course it was a memorable act. Pretty shameful act too.

[johnlambert]

thanks

[B00]

Ya might wan't to sit down for this one Legend.....but I agree with you.

John, I cannot believe that anyone would behave this way to anyone, let alone to someone they used to like. That kind of behaviour is disgusting and i'd seriously doubt the sanity of the person who did them. It's also telling that you are, even now, not ashamed of it.