It's so unfair that at age 27 I still feel sick with worry about girls I like.

[Supernick]

I feel like I'm about 17 again, and this shouldn't be happening to me, but I think I'm getting quite obsessed (in a NON CREEPY way) with a girl at work. I really like her, and I'm convinced she's perfect for me. I've been spending a fair bit of time together, and we go out to lunch most days, just the two of us. I can't tell if she's interested though, and it's driving me nuts. How on earth am I
A. Going to find out she's interested
B. Actually ask her out. This is someone I work with so it's going to have to be during the day.

[toby99]

Good Luck ... Don't be so hard on yourself, women are so difficult to read! Strange that she doesn't come for drinks after work though. Have you ever asked her about her private life and boyfriends etc?

[China Doll]

Women are not difficult to read; you lot are just slow readers!

Well? Spoken to her yet?

[Pippa68]

I am waiting for the outcome..

Go for it, Nick!

[cheries]

Hi Nick,
I don't think your age has got anything to do with your feelings. I'm 31 and still get worked up over things.
I really hope you get a positive answer from this girl....just try to stay calm and, whatever you do, don't @rse things up like I always do if I like someone ;o(

[Reverandfunk]

Cheries please take note of this post lol

[cheries]

I'm trying my best Rev ;o(
See, Nick? We all get it wrong sometimes......

[Supernick]

She's had a haircut overnight. I've sent her an -mail saying she's looking really nice today and asking if she's pleased with it.

If she doesn't respond i'm not asking her out, and she's clearly not interested.

[China Doll]

Nick, how did you arrive at that conclusion?!

[cheries]

Well hang on, she might just think you're being friendly!! Don't write this off yet!! It ain't over til the fat lady comes out Nick xxxx

[Pippa68]

Oooh the plot thickens!

How long are you going to give her to respond, supernick?

[Reverandfunk]

Nick - as a bloke speaking it would be better if you can sidle up to her and say like the hair when you having it finished....

[Pippa68]

I don't know what else nick wants, CD.

After all this girl is probably thinking that he isn't interested either. We must try and do something to make sure these two don't get away!

You have to ask her out, nick. Do you want her to ask you?

[Pippa68]

Rev, you really aren't helping...lol

Remember you are a DJ..it's easy for you lot to get the girls ;o)

[China Doll]

Well quite Pip.

[Reverandfunk]

Pippa I had two girls come up to me sat night and ask me if I wanted some groupies (first time this has happened) so I said "take all the lights down and load up the van......"

[cheries]

He wishes pip

[Reverandfunk]

Cheries that story is true lol

[cheries]

ouch

[Pippa68]

Mr P used to help out a DJ mate of his. He hoped it meant he would get the girls but it didn't, as he was just a grunt ;o)

However the DJ had them regularly. The back of his van was all pimped up with shagpile carpeting, soft lighting and Alexander O'Neal on the Pioneer.

[Reverandfunk]

I've got carpet in the back (stops the damp coming in), a footpump and a first aid kit....

"if you were here tonight"

One of me all time favourite hits of all time mate not arf