crush on married woman

[filthiestfis]

I have a crush on a girl at the office I work with but she is recently married :-( but we get on sooooo well hehe...shes only 24 so I think she made the wrong decision in marrying so quickly! She told me that I would make good husband for her if she wasnt already married but I reckon it was a joke. How can I get her off my mind? I work 8 hours of the day with her in a small office. Should I quit my job and become a priest? Would that help?

[Supernick]

You can't. I'm 6 months in on a work crush, and still think about her first thing in the morning and last thing at night, even after being turned down once 3 months ago. Give in and accept it as part of your new life!

[Octavius]

Perhaps find another woman who is not attached?

You could become a priest if you were so inclined, but that would only encourage celibacy whereas feelings, emotions and desires would remain, so little would be achieved.

The 'good husband' thing is a very general statement. The worst thing for you to do is interfere in her relationship, she may end up hating you altogether.

[Quoi]

When you think of her visualize maggots crawling from her face - that'll prevent any crush.

Acknowledgment to Mr Paul Mckenna lol

[filthiestfis]

I have no intention of interfering with her marriage.

[gravytate]

can you not ask her for some of her used underwear? Seeing her soiled panties may put you off and you get on with your life. Good luck

Hope this helps

[filthiestfis]

gravytate- I dont think her soiled panties would put me off on the contrary it would turn me on more! mmmmmm there is nothing like the scent of a beautiful woman :)

[filthiestfis]

Sometimes when she leaves the office before me and leaves her coat on the chair I sit on it (the chair) and sniff at her coat and grab whatever hairs she's left on it. Sounds pervy :P

[Jillius]

I bet you sniff the chair as well lol !!!

[SKA]

omg your well creepy!!
just list her bad points - im sure she has some!!

[filthiestfis]

LOL but I love the perfume scent she leaves behind :-(

[Jillius]

Does she actually know how much you like her ?

[SKA]

ok maybe your just in love with her perfume then!!

[cazzzz1975]

maybe you should just make a rule in you head to stop acting this way, you probably feel more obsessed because she is married.

You can learn to switch off these feelings, maybe try to get out more, meet other women, you may just be feeling lonely.

[filthiestfis]

No of course Im not going to tell her I fancy her. What for? She is married, presumably happy. I have no intention of going there. We just have a laugh together and aybe I a looking too much into things.

[Jillius]

I didn't say you had to tell her, but she must know ! !
She obviously likes you as well and if she does know you like her she obviously is quite chuffed about it or she would be keeping you at arms length.

[sense4all]

Has she got a sister you can transfer your affections too?

[cazzzz1975]

I would imagine its doing wonders for her ego, most women can tell if a man likes them in their office!

[Octavius]

If I found out about any man with an inappropriate fixation towards my wife, he wouldn�t be very long for this world, or at the very least celibacy would be the only option left to him. You seem to have an unhealthy obsession; maybe you should quit and hope that her husband never finds out, maybe go dogging or something.