Boy Problems

[conkl]

See I like this guy named Zac that goes to my church and I sent him an email a month ago asking him out but he never checks his email. I even reminded him to check his email one time and he must of forgot again. One of his good friends Josh also goes to church with me and I think he may like me but I'm not sure, well i sent him an email or 2 telling him to call Zac and tell him to check his emails because he keeps forgetting. Well Josh never emailed me back until a few days ago, and he sent me an email saying that he knows i like Zac or something. I emailed him back saying i did and that i had asked him out. Well Josh emailed me back saying things like Zac is a player and he has a zillion girlfriends and it won't be a surprise to him that i like him. See I don't know if i should believe Josh or not and I don't know what to do because I like Zac alot. But if he is a player i don't want nothing to do with him. HELP PLEASE!!!!

[bernardo]

If he never checks his emails then the best thing to do to start with is get hold of him sometime and talk to him. Try to sort things out by explaining how you feel face-to-face, rather than waiting for emails.

[boognish76]

Believe me - Zac checks his email. If he says he doesn't it's because he's not interested. Don't take it personally - just move on.

[DOB]

I would tend to agree with both bernardo and boognish76. If Zac doesn't want to date you (or whatever it's called nowadays) the easiest way to do this would be to ignore any correspondence with you. Everybody does this in all types of relationships (work, family, friends etc). But if you really want to know for sure, you will have to ask him face-to-face. Just bear in mind that the guy didn't reply to youre-mails and you may be rejected. Sorry but you asked.

[Wyn667]

Never, ever, EVER ask a guy out through email. phone: ok, Love letter: could work, face to face: scary but more effective. I'd just write Zac off at this point, and probably Josh too. If Josh is willing to say things like that about a good friend, he's probably willing to say things like that about you.

[Amster222]

Okay... I don't agree with everyone else on some parts. I myself am 15 so know what you mean. And the other people are right, the best way to see how he feels is to straight up ask him face-to-face! And if I was you I'd confront him in front of Josh to see if you're catching Josh in a lie or not! Maybe Josh is just jealous and wants you to himself. Who knows... I know a lot of people who never get online anymore... so you really don't know whether he's read your e-mail or not. Well Goodluck!