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Is there something wrong with me ?
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I'm a 33 year old man who has been married for 5 years and I have two beautiful children. I told my wife I was sexually abused by another boy when I was eight years old.
The thing is, I've started to wear womens g-strings ( just the plain black ones, nothing frilly..lol )and womens tight jeans, I've also started to get into the " emo " look. I've had several piercings and died my hair black and had an " emo " hair cut.
My wife accepts all of these things ( except she won't let me wear the jeans outside ) which I understand as I don't want to embarrass her.
She asked me if I was gay, I told her no as I had a homosexual experience a few years ago as I thought I may have been, I did not enjoy this experience and I am in no way attracted to men.
For the first time in my life i feel happy and confident with who I am. I've heard that a lot of gay emo guys wear womens underwear and womens jeans.
I've been bullied and made to feel like a freak all of my life. I had very physically abusive mother and step father and at one point when I was 10 my mother put a knife to my throat. I guess what I want to know is, am I a freak or a pervert just because the clothes I wear are not " traditionally male " ?
The thing is, I've started to wear womens g-strings ( just the plain black ones, nothing frilly..lol )and womens tight jeans, I've also started to get into the " emo " look. I've had several piercings and died my hair black and had an " emo " hair cut.
My wife accepts all of these things ( except she won't let me wear the jeans outside ) which I understand as I don't want to embarrass her.
She asked me if I was gay, I told her no as I had a homosexual experience a few years ago as I thought I may have been, I did not enjoy this experience and I am in no way attracted to men.
For the first time in my life i feel happy and confident with who I am. I've heard that a lot of gay emo guys wear womens underwear and womens jeans.
I've been bullied and made to feel like a freak all of my life. I had very physically abusive mother and step father and at one point when I was 10 my mother put a knife to my throat. I guess what I want to know is, am I a freak or a pervert just because the clothes I wear are not " traditionally male " ?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Having reached the stage where my children are secure & mature I can look back at how my life has been spent and my achievement through my children.
But now.....its just me, for me! I can indulge my fripperies - no holds barred - and have discovered Abers to have fun and cry with. It's a whole new family to me!
But now.....its just me, for me! I can indulge my fripperies - no holds barred - and have discovered Abers to have fun and cry with. It's a whole new family to me!
Glidr, apologies for my silliness.
"For the first time in my life i feel happy and confident with who I am."
I think you have answered your own question here. If you are happy with the situation, and the missus is okay with it, then why are you asking for other folks' opinions?
It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. And no, you are not a pervert because the clothes you wear are not "traditionally male". Fill yer boots lad. There are far worse things you could be dabbling in.
"For the first time in my life i feel happy and confident with who I am."
I think you have answered your own question here. If you are happy with the situation, and the missus is okay with it, then why are you asking for other folks' opinions?
It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. And no, you are not a pervert because the clothes you wear are not "traditionally male". Fill yer boots lad. There are far worse things you could be dabbling in.
Verix, to answer your question, no I'm a TV. I do not like to wer make up or wear womens clothes except for jeans and thongs and even then the jeans and thongs don't " look " like a woman's clothing. I just like the fit and look of some of the style of jeans and the thongs make me feel a little more feminine and good about myself.
I always thought a Transvestite wore all sorts of women's clothing and make up.
I always thought a Transvestite wore all sorts of women's clothing and make up.