What do I do for him then?

[Cindylou41]

I have been a mistress for almost 11 months and I completely adore the man I have this relationship with. However, recently he told me that before I came along that he was really happy at home (and still is) with his partner and family and that there had been 'nothing missing' in his life for him to have this relationship with me. He simply moved everything up to fit me in, I didn't fill a gap as it were. This has made me wonder what my purpose is then, or my role. I don't feel special any more. Has anyone got any ideas..please?

[redman41]

Would you like my Tel No ? I'd love a Mistress ! :-)))))

[craft1948]

Get over it........mistresses are never special.......

[Bapla]

your just an extra piece of what the wife doesn't provide him with.find someone that will really care for you and make you feel special...

[cazzz1975]

maybe you boosted his ego?

your purpose is to provide sex I would have thought

[another-view]

He's just using you to get his leg over.

[daffy654]

Some men (and women) are just greedy.

[Ankou]

perhaps he has good clean loving with his wife and uses you for the dirty kinky stuff.

[craft1948]

steady on vibra.......I never even did that for the husbands.....

[Sqad]

My mistress i very special.

She wears what clothes and underwear that I like, she wears the perfume that I like, any position she obliges with and at any time. Not a description of a wife eh?

If you fit my description.......you are special.

[4getmenot]

he's having his cake and eating it.

[cazzz1975]

its 11 months wasted from your perspective cindy, dont expect anything other than being used for no strings fun. what a catch eh..

[craft1948]

oooh if he's a muncher I'll have his number please.....

[4getmenot]

and if he does this to her he will never change for you. I used to be the other woman, being treatde like crap that was 3 years ago he is now going to be a father and is sleeping with someone else behind the mothers back. They dont change, you will never be important

[daffy654]

I knew a woman years ago who was a mistress,she had two children by her married lover,she even changed her surname to his and gave the children that surname. Eveyone was happy with the situation.............apart from his wife when she found out!

[Sqad]

Cindy my love it happens the other way too...........married women take lovers.

They give you the usual"guff" about being happily married, love their children.....and grandchildren ;-) but want a bit of excitement. Quite normal....happens all the time, every day.

If you enjoy him.....stay with him.........if you don't, then dump him.

Nothing is forever in this life Cindy.

[BigBadRoz]

Been there, done that - and VERY ashamed I would like to add!


I EVENTUALLY found out......You are there for sex and to boost his ego. SIMPLES!!

[4getmenot]

exactly and all this thinking over 'but he said this and said that and must care about me' utter cr@p he just tells you what you want to hear