I absolutley without a doubt 100% believe that this is not our first go round here. When my daughter was about 3 or 4, we were driving home and she all of a sudden told me she was glad she had chosen me as a moma, and last time we were here she had been my mom. I had believed before that, but that solidified my belief!!! Also, have you seen the movie "City of Angels"? I'm almost certain that the reason people know its their time is because there is an angel, or several with them, letting them know it will be o.k. My friend who just died of cancer asked several times who was standing behind her husband, and he swore he was the only one there. I don't care what anybody says, that was not the medicine, it was an angel! But this is my opinion, and my belief, and take it for what you will. Just happy to see a GOOD question in here!