im in soo much pain

[notnotnot]

ok Ive previously wrote on here before about the same kind of problems with this guy & a girl. Basically there was this girl continuiously flirting with 'my' man & it got to the point where I couldnt take it & I spoke to him & asked him 2 stop the flirting, to which he replied 'I wont stop because everyone else flirts with her'. This is the same girl who broke up his last relationship, when he was on the phone to his ex at a party she came and found him talking to her in a quiet room and screamed 'Come back to bed', they broke up over it. She licks him at partys and the final straw came when she said she was going to take him away at a party we were at for private chats and cuddles. I flipped. We broke up over her but because I loved him I got back with him, recently in an argument he told me 'she was better than me' & we argued over this for ages, in the matter of 2 hours he added her back onto his facebook. And said he wouldnt delete her as she is his 'friend'. he told me its my fault she plays up becuase if i was normal then she wouldnt play on my insecurities, he says its 'all in my head'. So there was this party at the weekend & I said I wasnt comfortable with him going because she was going & shes all in his face to get to me. We broke up over her, and he went to the party, pictures have appeared on facebook of our mutual friends of them cuddling together. she with lipstick kissed everyone and signed her name...there a picture of them cuddling on the sofa and lipstick kisses on his head. There is another picture of them with her putting her front tacco on his leg and pulling sex faces (hellooo...we JUST broke up over her) She dates his best mate & has a kid,why do this to me?...it all hurts that I cant walk away... my question is...Does he like her from the signs what ive shared?

[woofgang]

What can I say....we warned you....take them both of your FB list and get on with your life, you are worth better.

[AlBags]

You are a fool for continuing in this cozy (not) little threesome.
Get rid of these idiots from your life.

[askyourgran]

Walk away from these dckheads and don't look back. He doesn't give a monkeys about anyone except himself. Don't be used by them again. Where is your pride? you are worth more than that

[woofgang]

what we tell you three times is true.......

[tanny22]

well said woolfgang and albags,but will she listen i doubt it, tell her to go on jeremy kyle or get a life

[Prudie]

Poor you, I remember your previous post about this and all this is doing to you is smashing your self esteem. Please try to walk away as the issues surrounding this girl will never be resolved to your satisfaction. You are just having your heart broken and he doesn't seem to care,
Isn't she the kind of girl men call a pr!ckteaser?

[Rodge2]

She is doing it to get to you as you say. Put a spoke in her wheel by not reacting as she hopes you will. Start looking around you, there are plenty of available potential partners around. Concentrate on finding someone with decent standards and write this one off to experience.

[scotman]

I agree with Gran. Leave these 2 t0ssers to get on with their childish lives.

[brenda]

Pull yourself together girl , where is your self esteem and dignity . You are worth so much more than these pi**ocks. Move on , let it ride over you.You show them both that really you dont give a flying fig.

[Barmaid]

How Fluffing dare he?!!!!!! How dare he make you feel like this. Who gives a flying flump whether he likes her or not. What matters is that he does not respect you. Move on and forget the pillock.

[climber_chick]

These 2 appear to be very childish and insensitive. You need to break away from them for good. They will do nothing but bring you down, and a relationship full of insecurities and mistrust are not worth having. Put yourself first and have some 'you' time. As time progresses you will feel so much better and will wonder why you ever put yourself through this.

[mccfluff]

i want to know what a front tacco is and how you put it on his leg?

[Bbbananas]

I agree with the above posters - you're worth more x

p.s. what's "her front tacco" ?

[mccfluff]

lol salla, sometimes its scary......

[Bbbananas]

We are separated sisters ;-)

[lil75]

Taking the p*ss out of you, both of them....dont let them destroy your self worth, and dont question yourself, the only ones that need questioning are them, be brave and do what needs to be done...you wont find the right person if you dont let go of the wrong one x

[Brinjal]

Are you for real. Im sorry to be harsh but he compares you to her, Unfavourably, and you want to still be with him. Have some self respect. You will be treated as you allow yourself to be. Finish it once and for all and find someone who will care for you and not want to hurt and humiliate you like that prat. Where he likes her or not is immaterial. Its obviious he doesnt like or respect you and is using you for what? Convenient sex? I dont know but you need to wake up.

[boxtops]

Why are you still with this time-waster? I remember your original post, we were all appalled that this woman was licking your bloke in public. He's having his cake and eating it too, and destroying your self-esteem at the same time. It's not inside your head, this is a classic ploy - trying to make you feel that his behaviour is your fault. Go - leave - don't waste any more of your precious life on this cad and his sl@ggy friend. Delete them from FB, don't even look at FB for a couple of weeks. You are worth more than this - please be strong and go, they are having a laugh at your expense and you can do a great deal better than this. Being alone is better than being made a fool of.

[Nay35]

I had a similar issue, my ex hubby's best friend's wife (are you keeping up with me here), used to flirt wiv my hubby in front of me and have secret conversations and whenever I brought it up wiv my hubby he said they were just best friends. I knew it was more than that, women's intuition. Eventually my ex hubby left me for her, so was proven right. She harassed me for years after that hoping for a reaction. People like that thrive on getting a reaction and are so immature, just ignore and find someone better. I did!!!! Happier than ever now.
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