Untrustworthy

[sallyrowe]

My 75 year old husband is constantly buying hard core magazines and DVD's. He tends to hide them around the house. I am 64 and we have been married for 20 years, but he has proved to be untrustworthy in many ways. I have put up with chat lines on our telephone land line which ended up costing me £300 in telephone bills, chat lines on his mobile which he ended up being unable to pay.

He has made suggestive remarks to some of my friends, and this has caused hurt and embarrassment. I have to work 3 days a week to make ends meet, whilst he sits at home watching smutting videos!

I just feel like making a new start, but at my age it is not easy. I have three children and five grandchildren, and they would be horrified to know what is happening.

Any suggestions

[boxtops]

have you tackled him about this, to find out why he's doing it? How long has he been doing it? Many men do like looking at porn (it's not for me to understand why). Cut off the phone. Explain that if you stop working, he wouldn't be able to afford this habit.
You are not too old to start again if you want to - believe me.

[Sqad]

In my opinion that is the same man that you married 20 years ago and he isn't going to change now.

I just bet that you had both been married before ;-)